{"id":121138,"date":"2024-11-02T08:08:47","date_gmt":"2024-11-02T01:08:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hotvideos24.online\/?p=121138"},"modified":"2024-11-02T08:08:47","modified_gmt":"2024-11-02T01:08:47","slug":"my-mils-decade-of-secret-torture-has-finally-been-revealed","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hotvideos24.online\/?p=121138","title":{"rendered":"My MIL\u2019s decade of secret torture has finally been revealed."},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-3711241968723425\"\r\n     crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script>\r\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\r\n     style=\"display:block\"\r\n     data-ad-format=\"fluid\"\r\n     data-ad-layout-key=\"-fb+5w+4e-db+86\"\r\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-3711241968723425\"\r\n     data-ad-slot=\"7910942971\"><\/ins>\r\n<script>\r\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\r\n<\/script><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div itemprop=\"mainEntityOfPage\">\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"19\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm2z7tswy006b45kylt01zhuo@published\"><em>Slate Plus members get\u00a0more\u00a0<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/human-interest\/care-and-feeding\"><em>Care and Feeding<\/em><\/a><em> every week. Have a question about kids, parenting, or family life?\u00a0<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/forms.gle\/4BXEw8Wtcd7aAyXh9\"><em>Submit it here<\/em><\/a><em>!<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"4\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm2z8boxe002f3571t2xghudi@published\"><strong>Dear Care and Feeding, <\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"68\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm2z8bozv002g3571ygen37rz@published\">I\u2019ve been with my husband for over a decade, and we have two children. My mother-in-law has always had a bizarre and toxic relationship with both of her children. To preface, my sister-in-law moved out of her house to live with her dad when she was in high school (because her mother was so awful to her). My husband has always been her favorite and the golden child.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"33\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm2z8bp19002h3571ielie3q4@published\">For the last 10 years, every time I\u2019ve been around my mother-in-law, she will wait until my husband (or my parents or friends) leave the room to say something extremely rude to me.<\/p>\n<aside data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-roadblock\/instances\/cm2z7tswy006d45kyse32b4p8@published\" class=\"slate-roadblock\">\n<\/aside>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"71\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm2z7tswy006e45kygfnrbpy9@published\">I\u2019ve told my husband that when this happens, he always hates it and speaks to her, but ultimately, he thinks she is just being weird and gives her the benefit of the doubt. To be honest, I\u2019ve second-guessed myself so much. \u201cDid she really say that out loud? Did that happen?!?\u201d The things she says are so rude and obnoxious you almost can\u2019t believe a tiny old Jewish woman said it.<\/p>\n<aside data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/in-article-recirc\/instances\/cm2z7tswy006f45ky66okkruk@published\" class=\"in-article-recirc\" data-via=\"article-inline_recirc-section-advice\">\n<ol class=\"in-article-recirc__list\">\n<li class=\"in-article-recirc__item\">\n          <a href=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/advice\/2024\/10\/girlfriend-moving-in-together-parents-money-advice.html\" class=\"in-article-recirc__link\"><\/p>\n<p>            I Moved Across the Country to Finally Be With My Girlfriend. Three Weeks Later, Her Parents Were Paying for My Flight Home.<br \/>\n          <\/a>\n        <\/li>\n<li class=\"in-article-recirc__item\">\n          <a href=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/advice\/2024\/10\/neighbors-halloween-tradition-kids-parents-advice.html\" class=\"in-article-recirc__link\"><\/p>\n<p>            Help! My Neighbors Are Taking Advantage of My Street\u2019s Generosity on Halloween.<br \/>\n          <\/a>\n        <\/li>\n<li class=\"in-article-recirc__item\">\n          <a href=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/advice\/2024\/10\/rear-facing-car-disagreement-care-and-feeding.html\" class=\"in-article-recirc__link\"><\/p>\n<p>            My Husband Is Trying to Turn Our 2-Year-Old Against Me for the Weirdest Reason<br \/>\n          <\/a>\n        <\/li>\n<li class=\"in-article-recirc__item\">\n          <a href=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/advice\/2024\/10\/man-pants-off-sex-advice-dating.html\" class=\"in-article-recirc__link\"><\/p>\n<p>            I Met a Perfect Man. Then His Pants Came Off. I Don\u2019t Know What to Say.<br \/>\n          <\/a>\n        <\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/aside>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"99\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm2z8bxw5002m3571oyzh9ssa@published\">No one will be surprised when I say I do not like this woman, no longer travel to see her, and only let her stay in my home for short periods. Recently, she accidentally sent us both a voice note saying something extremely rude about me. My husband FINALLY heard precisely the type of comments I\u2019ve been complaining for 10 years! It feels so incredibly validating! Of course, he\u2019s heartbroken. She\u2019s very distressed but hasn\u2019t contacted me at all. I would love to cut off contact, but that will never happen with my husband. How do we move forward?<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"4\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm2z8bxw7002n3571rzxig3ai@published\">\u2014My MIL Is Evil<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"5\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm2z8bxw7002o3571bq3gb9w3@published\"><strong>Dear My MIL Is Evil, <\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"88\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm2z8bxw7002p357107jlk95r@published\">Just because your husband won\u2019t cut contact with his mother doesn\u2019t mean you can\u2019t. You\u2019ve already stopped going to see her, and now you have clear evidence as to why she should no longer be welcomed into your home. Let your husband know that her antics have gone on for too long and that you are completely done with her, and that\u2019s that. You don\u2019t owe him any further explanation; you\u2019ve been telling him how she treated you for years, and now he\u2019s heard it for himself.<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"slate-paragraph--tombstone\">\u2014Jamilah<\/span><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"subhead subhead--none\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/subhead\/instances\/cm2z8c5ot002v3571du4chbeg@published\">\n<p>More Advice From Slate<\/p>\n<\/h3>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"124\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm2z8bxw8002r3571fpieolxo@published\">My husband and I are expecting a baby in December, and we have started arguing constantly about hypothetical or just far-in-the-future problems. Like public school or private school. Or how many activities\u2014sports, music lessons, etc.\u2014is an acceptable number. But we\u2019re also staying up late fighting about things we\u2019re going to have to deal with right away too, like who\u2019s going to get up during the night when the baby cries and how long I should plan to breastfeed. We used to be the kind of couple other people envied because we seemed to get along so well, and we actually\u00a0<em>did<\/em>\u00a0get along well\u2014but now I\u2019m afraid we\u2019re going to fight about\u00a0<em>everything<\/em>\u00a0for the next 18 years!\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/human-interest\/2019\/08\/coming-out-trans-is-it-a-phase-care-and-feeding.html\">How do we decide about all these things we disagree about?<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><script type=\"text\/javascript\">\n!function(f,b,e,v,n,t,s){\nif(f.fbq)return;n=f.fbq=function(){n.callMethod?\nn.callMethod.apply(n,arguments):n.queue.push(arguments)};if(!f._fbq)f._fbq=n;\nn.push=n;n.loaded=!0;n.version='2.0';n.queue=[];t=b.createElement(e);t.async=!0;\nt.src=v;s=b.getElementsByTagName(e)[0];s.parentNode.insertBefore(t,s)}(window,\ndocument,'script','https:\/\/connect.facebook.net\/en_US\/fbevents.js');\n<\/script><br \/>\n<br \/><script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-3711241968723425\"\r\n     crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script>\r\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\r\n     style=\"display:block\"\r\n     data-ad-format=\"fluid\"\r\n     data-ad-layout-key=\"-fb+5w+4e-db+86\"\r\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-3711241968723425\"\r\n     data-ad-slot=\"7910942971\"><\/ins>\r\n<script>\r\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\r\n<\/script><br \/>\n<br \/><div data-type=\"_mgwidget\" data-widget-id=\"1660802\">\r\n<\/div>\r\n<script>(function(w,q){w[q]=w[q]||[];w[q].push([\"_mgc.load\"])})(window,\"_mgq\");\r\n<\/script>\r\n<br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/advice\/2024\/11\/secret-torture-mil-care-and-feeding.html\">Source link <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Slate Plus members get\u00a0more\u00a0Care and Feeding every week. 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