{"id":121812,"date":"2024-11-04T03:13:44","date_gmt":"2024-11-03T20:13:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hotvideos24.online\/?p=121812"},"modified":"2024-11-04T03:13:44","modified_gmt":"2024-11-03T20:13:44","slug":"i-live-with-my-parents-they-can-never-know-what-ive-been-doing-with-my-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hotvideos24.online\/?p=121812","title":{"rendered":"I live with my parents. They can never know what I&#8217;ve been doing with my ex."},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-3711241968723425\"\r\n     crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script>\r\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\r\n     style=\"display:block\"\r\n     data-ad-format=\"fluid\"\r\n     data-ad-layout-key=\"-fb+5w+4e-db+86\"\r\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-3711241968723425\"\r\n     data-ad-slot=\"7910942971\"><\/ins>\r\n<script>\r\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\r\n<\/script><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div itemprop=\"mainEntityOfPage\">\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"18\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm2z1j5jd005yhpm2zn1kikkx@published\"><em>How to Do It is Slate\u2019s sex advice column.\u00a0<\/em><strong><em>Have a question?\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/docs.google.com\/forms\/d\/e\/1FAIpQLSdx34-uOijrCIKqMdw5hnyYahSJBKa4AaSzDCu1nfcpmd3IjA\/viewform\"><strong><em>Send it to Stoya and Rich here.<\/em><\/strong><\/a><em>\u00a0It\u2019s anonymous!<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"5\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm2z1rgtr004c3b71bude48sg@published\"><strong>Dear How to Do It,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"146\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm2z1np5n001h3b71urbo6cn9@published\">I was with my boyfriend for about two years. We were very in love, and he was my best friend. However, we broke up when I moved for grad school. I was living with my parents at the time, and they got to deal with me at my saddest. It was messier than expected (but still amicable), and we decided to go cold turkey. However, we made up and became friends again (with a bit more) right before I moved. I have not told my parents this. We plan to hook up again when I come back for breaks, and eventually they will find out, even if I just tell them I\u2019m seeing friends, since I\u2019m going to stay over. I am an adult, and my sex life isn\u2019t their business. What should I say if they give me pushback about hooking up with my ex?<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"6\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm2z1np9i001i3b71tr203ytp@published\">\u2014Best Friend on the Down Low<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"7\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm2z1npcc001j3b71z154ra6m@published\"><strong>Dear Best Friend on the Down Low,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"89\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm2z1npff001k3b71h33hu5uc@published\">I am not one to advocate lying, but when lies liberate you from an oppressive system, I think they\u2019re a-OK. To avoid hassle, I would obfuscate your comings and goings as much as possible. Your parents don\u2019t have to know that you\u2019re staying with your ex\u2014say you\u2019re sleeping over at a friend\u2019s place. You\u2019re absolutely right that your sex life isn\u2019t their business, so make sure it doesn\u2019t become their business. It\u2019s unfair that you need to put in the work for this, but it\u2019s the way things are.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"167\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm2z1npig001l3b71mwayp6yy@published\">I do think that suppressing this information will make things easiest for you, but if it doesn\u2019t or if you\u2019re found out anyway, I think you have every right to say what you did in your letter: \u201cI am an adult, and my sex life isn\u2019t [your] business.\u201d In case there is confusion, you can explain that your breakup was a product of circumstance and not negative behavior like cheating (at least if what you conveyed in your letter is the whole truth). And then keep seeing him with their full knowledge and let them deal with that. If you aren\u2019t at risk of being cut off or excommunicated, a little bit of friction over this might be worth withstanding. It might help them evolve. Or just tell them that you\u2019re dating this guy again. Unless they have reasons not to like him, they should be able to understand that relationships aren\u2019t always so cut and dry. You broke up and now you\u2019re talking again. It happens.<\/p>\n<div class=\"prudie-google-form\" data-form-response-uri=\"https:\/\/docs.google.com\/forms\/u\/0\/d\/e\/1FAIpQLSdx34-uOijrCIKqMdw5hnyYahSJBKa4AaSzDCu1nfcpmd3IjA\/formResponse\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/prudie-google-form\/instances\/cm2z1nzkp001v3b71bwxihriz@published\">\n<p class=\"prudie-google-form__disclaimer\">\n      Please keep questions short (&lt;150 words), and don\u2018t submit the same question to multiple columns. We are unable to edit or remove questions after publication. Use pseudonyms to maintain anonymity. Your submission may be used in other Slate advice columns and may be edited for publication.\n    <\/p>\n<p>    <iframe class=\"js-hidden-iframe\" name=\"hidden_iframe\" id=\"hidden_iframe\" style=\"display:none;\" frameborder=\"0\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-notification--success js-success-message\" hidden=\"\">Thanks! Your question has been submitted.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"5\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm2z1obr100263b71uue2x4g0@published\"><strong>Dear How to Do It,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"63\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm2z1ontz002c3b714txpwedz@published\">Over Labor Day, I found out my husband has been on hookup apps for our entire 15 year relationship, including through my traumatic pregnancy and severe postpartum depression. He says it never got physical\u2014it was just sexting, and for reasons too long to list, I believe him on that. He confessed, moved out at my request, and has started treatment for sex addiction.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"115\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm2z1ontz002d3b714smrn99u@published\">I feel like my entire adult life was a lie. I\u2019m caring for our son alone. And \u2026 I still can\u2019t push the button on a divorce. I am literally still discovering his lies on a weekly basis. Am I a fool? If he hasn\u2019t woken up by now is he ever really going to change? I grew up with an alcoholic mother and so much of this feels familiar to me. I hate to think I\u2019d be continuing the cycle by staying with him. I want better for my son than I had, but my mother took 30+ years to get sober. My husband claims he\u2019s had his wakeup and is \u201cdoing the work.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"5\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm2z1onu0002e3b71owr4e9yq@published\">\u2014Limbo Isn\u2019t Just a Dance<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"6\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm2z1onu0002f3b719h0t9g1r@published\"><strong>Dear Limbo Isn\u2019t Just a Dance,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"85\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm2z1onu0002g3b716adnm6w1@published\">I wish you would have listed at least one reason why you believe that your husband was just browsing on hook-up apps, when you are \u201cstill discovering his lies on a weekly basis.\u201d Is your belief there another symptom of you not wanting to let go? Do you need to believe that because the alternative is too painful? What if he <em>had<\/em> gone through with the sex he was soliciting\u2014would that be the nail in the coffin? Are you dodging the nail with mental gymnastics?<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"42\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm2z1onu0002h3b71qbq2ffdw@published\">For your sake, you should at least envision the possibility that he did cheat. What\u2019s your betrayal threshold here? There may still be more to uncover and you should at least be prepared for the possibility of evidence of actual infidelity surfacing.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"98\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm2z1onu0002i3b717loh1vp3@published\">Look, people do change. People get help and they evolve new habits. They rid themselves of past problematic behaviors. Not everyone who tries will succeed, but some certainly do. The truth is you can\u2019t know the answer to your question at this point. Time will tell you how devoted he is to turning a corner, and it will give you a sense of his capability. That he moved out and sought treatment are good signs. Keep looking for those. The onus is on him to show you that he\u2019s changed. If you\u2019re not seeing it, don\u2019t buy it.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"153\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm2z1onu0002j3b71cgq263u4@published\">A parting note: I would be somewhat wary of anyone offering treatment for sex addiction in those words, as <a href=\"https:\/\/time.com\/5016058\/sex-addiction\/\">sex does not fit the addiction model<\/a> like substances do (there\u2019s no physical withdrawal, for example). There\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/my.clevelandclinic.org\/health\/diseases\/22690-sex-addiction-hypersexuality-and-compulsive-sexual-behavior\">no agreed-upon diagnostic criteria<\/a> for hypersexuality, and in fact hypersexuality was <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/conditions\/hypersexuality-sex-addiction\">removed<\/a> from the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (it was listed in the fourth edition but didn\u2019t make the cut for the DSM-V). That doesn\u2019t mean that no one has a problematic relationship with sex or poor impulse control that manifests in sexual behavior, and surely there is help out there for those things. The term remains controversial, and for that reason, any clinician offering treatment for \u201csex addiction\u201d using that term should be vetted at least via Google for patient reviews (or even media reporting). Perhaps you wrote \u201ctreatment for sex addiction\u201d as a kind of shorthand and this is a moot point.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"15\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm2z1oy7y00373b7146lc8zjx@published\"><em>Help us keep giving the advice you crave every week.\u00a0<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/my.slate.com\/plus\/?utm_medium=link&amp;utm_campaign=plus_support&amp;utm_content=advice_columns&amp;utm_source=article\"><strong><em>Sign up for Slate Plus now<\/em><\/strong><\/a><em>.<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"5\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm2z1onu1002k3b71p50rumc7@published\"><strong>Dear How to Do it,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"52\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm2z1onu1002l3b71cgznc4lg@published\">My gorgeous, sexy husband died of Alzheimer\u2019s disease a year ago after several heartbreaking years of decline. I was his sole caregiver for most of that time. Caregiving, sleep deprivation and grief left me depleted, body and soul. If I still had a libido, I had no idea where I\u2019d left it.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"89\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm2z1onu1002m3b716zetovwg@published\">Now that the fog is clearing, I feel faint stirrings of desire, and I realize I\u2019m not done with sex. The problem? I\u2019m 77, and suffering severe cognitive dissonance between that saggy, wrinkly, creaky reality and my younger self\u2019s sexually adventurous inclinations. Masturbation has never really been my thing, and now it just makes me cry because I miss my honey so damn much. It would be really easy for a little old lady to make a complete fool of herself trying to get some action. What to do?<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"4\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm2z1onu2002n3b710wh4qqwn@published\">\u2014Not Done with Sex<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"5\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm2z1onu2002o3b712x8d0g19@published\"><strong>Dear Not Done with Sex,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"223\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm2z1onu2002p3b71va0d3x2y@published\">First, you should try to get over your preemptive embarrassment. It would be really easy for <em>anyone<\/em> to make a complete fool of themselves trying to get some action. Sometimes what separates the foolhardy from the successful is your potential partner\u2019s reaction, and you can never be sure of that until you make a move. Doing so doesn\u2019t make you dumb, it just makes you horny. It\u2019s all about maintaining respect\u2014suggesting, floating the idea, or even coming out and saying, \u201cI want to jump your bones,\u201d and then gracefully taking no for an answer the first time. You keep it moving and you find someone who is into you. The connectivity of the internet means that you can be in contact with a lot of potential partners, and that means that your chances of experiencing rejection are higher. It\u2019s just part of the process. You\u2019re no less worthy of sex and affection than someone who is 50 years your junior. Finding it might be a process, but when the fruit of your labor is great sex, you\u2019ll know it was worthwhile. Focus on those sexually adventurous inclinations and not your perceived aesthetic shortcomings\u2014the way you carry yourself can go a long way toward making yourself attractive to potential partners. If you own who you are, you\u2019ll make a more attractive rental for others.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"133\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm2z1onu3002q3b719n3gjm6y@published\">Once your attitude is in check, start looking for partners. I talked to senior-sex expert Joan Price a few years ago for a <a href=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/human-interest\/2020\/02\/my-wife-wants-to-have-sex-with-her-brother-bad-idea.html\">question<\/a> on this matter. For online cruising, she recommended OKCupid and Match.com, which she said have a good number of senior clientele. For meeting in person, she suggested senior-oriented dance classes or other local social activities. In my experience, meeting someone in person yields greater sexual success (you get to see how they move through space, which can make or break attraction and isn\u2019t conveyed by apps). But why not try both to cast a wide net? Price wrote in an email, \u201cDon\u2019t lie about your age\u2014it\u2019s not a defect, it\u2019s a superpower! You have life experience, self-knowledge, communication skills, and sexual skills to share.\u201d That\u2019s the spirit! Conjure it.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"5\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm2z1onu3002r3b71b87nrwas@published\"><strong>Dear How to Do It,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"95\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm2z1onu3002s3b71ntrakxy7@published\">I have recently begun to wonder if I\u2019m somewhere on the asexual spectrum. My problem with sex and desire lies in between a hook up and a fully committed relationship. I\u2019ve had hook ups and have enjoyed them immensely, and I don\u2019t have problems when I\u2019m already in a relationship. However, any time I\u2019ve tried to develop a friends-with-benefits situation, or started dating someone, I feel weirdly objectified. Like, sex is fine if it\u2019s a one-off or with someone I know is present for me even without the sex. How do I communicate this effectively?<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"3\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm2z1onu4002t3b71ozwoxl6k@published\">\u2014All or Nothing<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"4\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm2z1onu4002u3b71475mog72@published\"><strong>Dear All or Nothing,<\/strong><\/p>\n<aside data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/in-article-recirc\/instances\/cm2z1j5jd0060hpm2ittfik3r@published\" class=\"in-article-recirc\" data-via=\"article-inline_recirc-section-advice\">\n<ol class=\"in-article-recirc__list\">\n<li class=\"in-article-recirc__item\">\n          <a href=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/advice\/2024\/11\/family-inheritance-sister-kids-explanation-parenting-advice.html\" class=\"in-article-recirc__link\"><\/p>\n<p>            I Didn\u2019t Get a Dime of the Family Inheritance. Now I\u2019m Faced With Explaining That to My Kids.<br \/>\n          <\/a>\n        <\/li>\n<li class=\"in-article-recirc__item\">\n          <a href=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/advice\/2024\/11\/i-cant-believe-what-they-sprung-on-me.html\" class=\"in-article-recirc__link\"><br \/>\n            <svg class=\"slate-roadblock-signifier slate-roadblock-signifier--block\" width=\"95\" height=\"12\" viewbox=\"0 0 95 12\"><title>This Content is Available for Slate Plus members only<\/title>\n      <use width=\"10\" height=\"12\" x=\"0\" class=\"slate-roadblock-signifier__lock\" href=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/static\/media\/sites\/slate-com\/signifiers-sprite.7a83949.svg#lock\"\/><use width=\"78\" height=\"12\" x=\"15\" class=\"slate-roadblock-signifier__splus\" href=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/static\/media\/sites\/slate-com\/global-sprite.453518f.svg#splus\"\/>\n  <\/svg><br \/>\n            Help! I Just Visited My Brother and His Wife for Her \u201cBaby Shower.\u201d But It Was a Trap.<br \/>\n          <\/a>\n        <\/li>\n<li class=\"in-article-recirc__item\">\n          <a href=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/advice\/2024\/11\/teenage-bully-care-and-feeding.html\" class=\"in-article-recirc__link\"><\/p>\n<p>            My Teenage Niece Has Become a Nightmare Bully. Her Attacks on My Kid Have Finally Gone Too Far.<br \/>\n          <\/a>\n        <\/li>\n<li class=\"in-article-recirc__item\">\n          <a href=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/advice\/2024\/10\/man-pants-off-sex-advice-dating.html\" class=\"in-article-recirc__link\"><\/p>\n<p>            I Met a Perfect Man. Then His Pants Came Off. I Don\u2019t Know What to Say.<br \/>\n          <\/a>\n        <\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/aside>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"122\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm2z1onu4002v3b71pjex7izm@published\">While you are certainly entitled to identify as you see fit based on drawn conclusions, what the evidence provided suggests to me is the simple fact that FWBs aren\u2019t for you. Indeed, hook-up friends can make for a very strange dynamic\u2014it is a dynamic essentially based on how <em>not<\/em> committed to the other person you are. The vibe is \u201csee you when I see you,\u201d and in my experience, hook-up buddies flake at will because you simply are not a priority by definition. This kind of relationship exists in a state of limbo. The other two types of relating\u2014a committed relationship with sex and a fleeting hook-up\u2014are much more strongly defined. They are more black and white. FWBs are gray all over.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"48\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm2z1onu4002w3b71uan2syin@published\">There\u2019s nothing wrong with reaching the conclusion that you did, and to be clear, this doesn\u2019t mean that you <em>aren\u2019t<\/em> on the ace spectrum. But allosexual people respond differently to different stimuli and circumstances, too\u2014one kind of relationship scheme not turning someone on does not make them ace.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"121\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm2z1onu4002x3b7122iro20t@published\">Communicating this effectively may be tricky. You may have to think on your feet and decide what the future holds for the person in front of (or under) you: all or nothing. If they ask to see you again after sex, it\u2019s completely reasonable to say something like, \u201cI don\u2019t really do friends with benefits stuff, so if you\u2019d like to pursue dating, then, OK. If not, I don\u2019t see a future for us.\u201d Yeah, that might put some people off, but I think that\u2019s the point\u2014you\u2019re not going to have a good time in an in-between arrangement with them so might as well cut them off then and there if they aren\u2019t prepared to at least <em>try<\/em> to get serious.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"1\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm2z1pb2q003p3b71xc7829o4@published\"><span class=\"slate-paragraph--tombstone\">\u2014Rich<\/span><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"subhead subhead--none\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/subhead\/instances\/cm2z1pmyd00403b711z6slqw4@published\">\n<p>More Advice From Slate<\/p>\n<\/h3>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"70\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm2z1pvxe00463b718ipihk7z@published\">I have a new partner who is\u00a0<em>really<\/em>\u00a0well endowed, both in length and girth. He has an injury that restricts position options for at least the next two to three months (i.e. no missionary). When I\u2019m on top I can control the depth, but it\u2019s not my preferred position, at least not for the whole time. Side-lying involves a lot of cervix jabbing. And oral sex\u2014well, wow he\u2019s big. <a href=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/human-interest\/2023\/02\/well-endowed-boyfriend-sex-advice-injury.html\">Any suggestions?<\/a><\/p>\n<aside class=\"slate-kicker-promo\" id=\"kicker\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-kicker-promo\/instances\/cm2z1j5jd0061hpm2gdbvjo99@published\"\/>\n<\/div>\n<p><script type=\"text\/javascript\">\n!function(f,b,e,v,n,t,s){\nif(f.fbq)return;n=f.fbq=function(){n.callMethod?\nn.callMethod.apply(n,arguments):n.queue.push(arguments)};if(!f._fbq)f._fbq=n;\nn.push=n;n.loaded=!0;n.version='2.0';n.queue=[];t=b.createElement(e);t.async=!0;\nt.src=v;s=b.getElementsByTagName(e)[0];s.parentNode.insertBefore(t,s)}(window,\ndocument,'script','https:\/\/connect.facebook.net\/en_US\/fbevents.js');\n<\/script><br \/>\n<br \/><script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-3711241968723425\"\r\n     crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script>\r\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\r\n     style=\"display:block\"\r\n     data-ad-format=\"fluid\"\r\n     data-ad-layout-key=\"-fb+5w+4e-db+86\"\r\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-3711241968723425\"\r\n     data-ad-slot=\"7910942971\"><\/ins>\r\n<script>\r\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\r\n<\/script><br \/>\n<br \/><div data-type=\"_mgwidget\" data-widget-id=\"1660802\">\r\n<\/div>\r\n<script>(function(w,q){w[q]=w[q]||[];w[q].push([\"_mgc.load\"])})(window,\"_mgq\");\r\n<\/script>\r\n<br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/advice\/2024\/11\/ex-boyfriend-live-parents-back-together-break-up-advice.html\">Source link <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How to Do It is Slate\u2019s sex advice column.\u00a0Have a question?\u00a0Send it to Stoya and Rich here.\u00a0It\u2019s anonymous! Dear How to Do It, I was with my boyfriend for about &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/hotvideos24.online\/?p=121812\" class=\"more-link\">Read More<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-121812","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-health","entry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/hotvideos24.online\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/121812","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/hotvideos24.online\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/hotvideos24.online\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hotvideos24.online\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hotvideos24.online\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=121812"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/hotvideos24.online\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/121812\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/hotvideos24.online\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=121812"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hotvideos24.online\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=121812"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/hotvideos24.online\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=121812"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}