{"id":125082,"date":"2024-11-12T19:57:45","date_gmt":"2024-11-12T12:57:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hotvideos24.online\/?p=125082"},"modified":"2024-11-12T19:57:45","modified_gmt":"2024-11-12T12:57:45","slug":"my-twins-pre-k-has-unconscionable-plans-for-thanksgiving","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hotvideos24.online\/?p=125082","title":{"rendered":"My twins&#8217; pre-k has unconscionable plans for Thanksgiving."},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-3711241968723425\"\r\n     crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script>\r\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\r\n     style=\"display:block\"\r\n     data-ad-format=\"fluid\"\r\n     data-ad-layout-key=\"-fb+5w+4e-db+86\"\r\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-3711241968723425\"\r\n     data-ad-slot=\"7910942971\"><\/ins>\r\n<script>\r\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\r\n<\/script><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div itemprop=\"mainEntityOfPage\">\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"16\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm3dkdzag000gm1m0tlocyvjr@published\"><em>Care and Feeding is Slate\u2019s parenting advice column.\u00a0<\/em><strong><em>Have a question for Care and Feeding?\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/forms.gle\/4BXEw8Wtcd7aAyXh9\"><strong><em>Submit it here<\/em><\/strong><\/a><strong><em>.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"4\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm3dkg2lx001d3b724zhvo1yn@published\"><strong>Dear Care and Feeding,\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"182\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm3dkg3wn001i3b72vry9413z@published\">My twins are in public pre-k, we love that our community in Texas offers this and were so thrilled to enroll and support our public schools. Curriculum-wise, I haven\u2019t had much of an issue, until now. There is a Thanksgiving program planned and our pre-k class was asked to dress as pilgrims. I know many of us dressed in far more problematic attire and participated in ridiculous school activities that were not at all representative of what actually occurred, but pilgrims were awful people and I don\u2019t want my kids (twins) to be dressed like puritan jerks. I discussed this politely with their principal and from all vague responses that I can gather, my kids will be singled out from participating and either separated to be with another class or not participate at all. Another parent in our class suggested that I start a petition, but we are just one pre-k class. Am I overreacting or is this something I should keep fighting? I don\u2019t want my kids to be singled out, but I also don\u2019t want them being sold a lie.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"2\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm3dkg3wo001j3b722i2pmw51@published\">\u2014Thanksgiving Dilemma<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"2\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm3dkg67o001o3b72m0mv7jxe@published\"><strong>Dear Dilemma, <\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"99\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm3dkg3wo001k3b72egie8k6j@published\">It sounds like you don\u2019t want to make a bigger deal out of it than you already have (which, by the way, was totally appropriate\u2014how do these kinds of things still go on!). Here\u2019s my radical suggestion: skip school that day and take your kids to do something wholesome. Go to the natural history museum or the aquarium, or the local historical society. Or the trampoline park! They will forget that there even was a school event, and you can just avoid the whole thing\u2014this time at least! Your kids\u2019 absence might communicate a point to the teacher, too.<\/p>\n<div class=\"prudie-google-form\" data-form-response-uri=\"https:\/\/docs.google.com\/forms\/u\/0\/d\/e\/1FAIpQLSeI516MVbV7en9S-8krL2zppY_GWq-qad7K_P7iUvxcD7t6vA\/formResponse\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/prudie-google-form\/instances\/cm3dkld3e002d3b72jtbuooek@published\">\n<p class=\"prudie-google-form__disclaimer\">\n      Please keep questions short (&lt;150 words), and don\u2018t submit the same question to multiple columns. We are unable to edit or remove questions after publication. Use pseudonyms to maintain anonymity. Your submission may be used in other Slate advice columns and may be edited for publication.\n    <\/p>\n<p>    <iframe class=\"js-hidden-iframe\" name=\"hidden_iframe\" id=\"hidden_iframe\" style=\"display:none;\" frameborder=\"0\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-notification--success js-success-message\" hidden=\"\">Thanks! Your question has been submitted.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"4\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm3dklpw2002k3b729nvp2750@published\"><strong>Dear Care and Feeding,\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"96\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm3dkm29k002o3b72huw7y27u@published\">My spouse is depressed, and I don\u2019t know how I can help them. We\u2019ve had a rough few years: a family member of mine had a life-changing injury and I\u2019m now one of their caretakers, and we went through a long stretch of infertility. These two circumstances really upended our life, and my own mental health problems took a real toll on me and our relationship. We\u2019ve since had a baby, and I\u2019ve been able to mostly pull myself out of the fog of my own depression\u2014only to find out how much my spouse is suffering.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"94\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm3dkm29l002p3b72fuw9s2wf@published\">After months of fighting they finally opened up to me about all of what they\u2019ve been going through. They feel like they are in a dead end job (they work in a space similar to that of actors or artists, where if you don\u2019t ever get a big break you\u2019re relegated to low paying jobs, or jobs completely outside of your desired field just to pay the bills). Their body is falling apart and they can\u2019t work out like they used to (we\u2019re in our 40s). And, they aren\u2019t getting enough intimacy from me.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"50\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm3dkm29l002q3b72jur4qboq@published\">The problem is the way their depression manifests is through anger and outbursts about things a healthy and stable person would be easily able to brush off. To be with them at home is to be in a minefield\u2014which doesn\u2019t lend itself to me wanting to be intimate with them.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"123\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm3dkm29l002r3b72h3dw3hwi@published\">Watching my spouse go from the happy, carefree, kind person I fell in love with to this feels impossible, especially when so much of what\u2019s affecting them is out of my control. I try to talk to them about trying therapy or medication and they\u2019ve refused. I ask what I can do to make things easier for them; they give me vague instructions\u2014and then get mad at me when I don\u2019t follow them correctly. I keep taking on more and more of our household and life duties, only to find myself stretched so completely thin that I can barely keep up at my own full-time job. I\u2019m honestly at my wits end on what I can do, if they refuse to help themselves.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"5\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm3dkm29m002s3b72psh79dty@published\">\u2014Barely Holding it All Together<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"6\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm3dko3bl00423b72qaolj7ba@published\"><strong>Dear Barely Holding it All Together,  <\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"47\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm3dkm29m002t3b72uvmz2n1w@published\">I am so sorry that your partner is struggling so much, and that your home\u2014which should be a sanctuary\u2014is a minefield, as you describe it. It\u2019s so stressful. I have one potentially-simple suggestion to make things a little easier, and then one that\u2019s not simple at all.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"60\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm3dkm29m002u3b72hbx0qt6z@published\">Ok, the simple one first: You mention taking on household duties to ease their burden. Is there anything you can outsource, like sending out your laundry or paying someone to cook or clean for you? This wouldn\u2019t have to be forever, and it may ease <em>your <\/em>current burden and give you a little more bandwidth for work and your baby.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"99\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm3dkm29m002v3b72ggtnlldp@published\">But you\u2019ve got a bigger issue than this. Your spouse is refusing real help from professionals, and taking out their frustration on you. They are blaming external factors\u2014lack of exercise, an unsatisfying career, not enough intimacy with you\u2014for things that they could exert some control over. This isn\u2019t going to get better on its own. And I hate to say it, but accommodating their behavior is only going to make things worse. It is so painful to watch someone you love suffer, but sympathizing and taking on their responsibilities is only going to give them more room to wallow.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"110\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm3dkm29n002w3b72gpf0a6tv@published\">You said it yourself: they are refusing to help themselves. You need to give them an ultimatum: pull it together, get some professional help, and make an effort to get on a better track. Or you are going (with the baby) to stay with someone else (mom\/friend\/sibling\/cousin) for a little while. If going elsewhere isn\u2019t an option for you, you can still pull back and focus on taking care of yourself and your needs, rather than continuing to ask them what they need from you. And if they get mad at you for not doing things \u201ccorrectly\u201d, tell them that you\u2019re not going to be berated like that\u2014end of conversation.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"subhead subhead--none\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/subhead\/instances\/cm3dkmk2f00373b72u8z3ej9j@published\">\n<p>Catch Up on Care and Feeding<\/p>\n<\/h3>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"14\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm3dkmk0u00363b725df45l4q@published\">\u00b7\u00a0<em>Missed earlier columns this week?\u00a0<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/human-interest\/care-and-feeding\"><em>Read them here<\/em><\/a><em>.<\/em><br \/>\u00b7\u00a0<em>Discuss this column in the\u00a0<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/groups\/slateparenting\/\"><em>Slate Parenting Facebook group<\/em><\/a><em>!<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"4\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm3dkmr7j003d3b7222v8ycko@published\"><strong>Dear Care and Feeding,\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"85\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm3dkmytl003h3b722wjcxvfb@published\">My niece was 2 the first time she called me fat. She said I was \u201ctoo fluffy\u201d to play with her in the corner of the room. She said \u201conly skinny people like Mommy\u201d could play with her (My BMI puts me firmly in the \u201cobese\u201d range). She\u2019s seven now, and doesn\u2019t finish her lunch\u2014sometimes she doesn\u2019t eat it at all. She says she \u201cwants to be small\u201d and \u201clikes being small.\u201d She never finishes a meal, whether it\u2019s healthy stuff or fun-to-eat kid stuff.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"67\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm3dkmytm003i3b72pcx2hzl0@published\">My mom talks about weight all the time. My sister talks about weight all the time. She has two friends who have had gastric bypass and chocks up the changes in their weight to \u201cfinally having some control over what they eat.\u201d \u201cYou eat less, because you\u2019re finally forced to, and you lose weight. It\u2019s easy,\u201d is how she describes the surgery within earshot of the kids.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"42\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm3dkmytm003j3b721n5at7v2@published\">I\u2019m concerned that my niece has an eating disorder\u2014but I\u2019m not sure how we as a family can fix it. Or if she can even absorb what my sister is saying about weight. Is there anything I can do about it all?<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"3\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm3dkmytm003k3b72e5r9z0xg@published\">\u2014The Fat Aunt<\/p>\n<aside class=\"recirc-line\" data-via=\"recirc-line\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/recirc-line\/instances\/cm3dkdzag000hm1m08ra2yz4q@published\">\n<p>    <a href=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/advice\/2024\/11\/moving-man-daughter-abrupt-breakup-relationship-advice.html\" class=\"recirc-line__content\"><\/p>\n<div class=\"recirc-line__img\">\n          <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/compote.slate.com\/images\/4ec6a8bf-dd8d-45e6-81f8-124c192ce21a.jpeg?crop=1560%2C1040%2Cx0%2Cy0&amp;width=140\" width=\"141\" height=\"94\" srcset=\"https:\/\/compote.slate.com\/images\/4ec6a8bf-dd8d-45e6-81f8-124c192ce21a.jpeg?crop=1560%2C1040%2Cx0%2Cy0&amp;width=320 320w,&#10;https:\/\/compote.slate.com\/images\/4ec6a8bf-dd8d-45e6-81f8-124c192ce21a.jpeg?crop=1560%2C1040%2Cx0%2Cy0&amp;width=480 480w,&#10;https:\/\/compote.slate.com\/images\/4ec6a8bf-dd8d-45e6-81f8-124c192ce21a.jpeg?crop=1560%2C1040%2Cx0%2Cy0&amp;width=600 600w,&#10;https:\/\/compote.slate.com\/images\/4ec6a8bf-dd8d-45e6-81f8-124c192ce21a.jpeg?crop=1560%2C1040%2Cx0%2Cy0&amp;width=840 840w,&#10;https:\/\/compote.slate.com\/images\/4ec6a8bf-dd8d-45e6-81f8-124c192ce21a.jpeg?crop=1560%2C1040%2Cx0%2Cy0&amp;width=960 960w,&#10;https:\/\/compote.slate.com\/images\/4ec6a8bf-dd8d-45e6-81f8-124c192ce21a.jpeg?crop=1560%2C1040%2Cx0%2Cy0&amp;width=1280 1280w,&#10;https:\/\/compote.slate.com\/images\/4ec6a8bf-dd8d-45e6-81f8-124c192ce21a.jpeg?crop=1560%2C1040%2Cx0%2Cy0&amp;width=1440 1440w,&#10;https:\/\/compote.slate.com\/images\/4ec6a8bf-dd8d-45e6-81f8-124c192ce21a.jpeg?crop=1560%2C1040%2Cx0%2Cy0&amp;width=1600 1600w,&#10;https:\/\/compote.slate.com\/images\/4ec6a8bf-dd8d-45e6-81f8-124c192ce21a.jpeg?crop=1560%2C1040%2Cx0%2Cy0&amp;width=1920 1920w,&#10;https:\/\/compote.slate.com\/images\/4ec6a8bf-dd8d-45e6-81f8-124c192ce21a.jpeg?crop=1560%2C1040%2Cx0%2Cy0&amp;width=2200 2200w\" sizes=\"auto, 141px\" alt=\"\" loading=\"lazy\"\/>\n        <\/div>\n<p><h4 class=\"recirc-line__byline\">Ashley C. Ford<\/h4>\n<h3 class=\"recirc-line__promoline\">Help! I Uprooted My Life to Build a Future With a Man. Then He Told My Daughter and Me That We \u201cNeed to Leave.\u201d<\/h3>\n<p>        <b class=\"slate-link--bold recirc-line__read-more\">Read More<\/b>\n      <\/p>\n<p>    <\/a><br \/>\n<\/aside>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"3\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm3dknfbw003y3b725q5bjamp@published\"><strong>Dear Fat Aunt, <\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"51\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm3dkmytm003l3b721wxdnhk8@published\">It is so hard to undo handed-down family judgment around weight and food, and it takes a ton of effort to break the kind of cycle you describe. It sounds like you have for yourself, and that\u2019s great. The more you can model healthy attitudes about food and bodies, the better.<\/p>\n<aside data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/in-article-recirc\/instances\/cm3dkdzag000im1m0k8e09b7d@published\" class=\"in-article-recirc\" data-via=\"article-inline_recirc-section-advice\">\n<ol class=\"in-article-recirc__list\">\n<li class=\"in-article-recirc__item\">\n          <a href=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/advice\/2024\/11\/niece-medical-condition-dad-care-parenting-advice.html\" class=\"in-article-recirc__link\"><\/p>\n<p>            My Niece Keeps Passing Out During Soccer Practice. Her Dad Claims She\u2019s \u201cDoing It for Attention.\u201d<br \/>\n          <\/a>\n        <\/li>\n<li class=\"in-article-recirc__item\">\n          <a href=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/advice\/2024\/11\/small-penis-husband-size-genetic-micropenis-hereditary-advice.html\" class=\"in-article-recirc__link\"><\/p>\n<p>            My Husband is Terrified of Passing One of His, Um, \u201cSmall\u201d Traits to Our Child. 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We Think It\u2019s Going to Do More Harm Than Good.<br \/>\n          <\/a>\n        <\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/aside>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"123\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm3dkmytm003m3b72uxj77hfs@published\">As for your niece: I am not an expert, but not finishing meals, or even skipping one here and there, isn\u2019t out of the ordinary for kids. But if you see other concerning signs\u2014refusal to eat, losing weight, anxiety around food, irritability\u2014it\u2019s time to intervene and talk to your sister. Keep the conversation as focused on the concerning facts as possible; the goal is to get your sister to bring up her daughter\u2019s behavior with a doctor who can evaluate things, not to change her ingrained view of weight. Hopefully, as your niece gets older and is exposed to different bodies and attitudes about bodies and health, she can see that the way her mom talks about weight is no good for anyone.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"62\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm3dkmytn003n3b72mf9s950x@published\">But unfortunately, I don\u2019t think there is much you can do about how your mom and sister talk about weight around your niece, or about her eating habits. What you can do is be yourself, be neutral about meals together, and model healthy attitudes about food and bodies. In the long run, just doing that might be extremely helpful for your niece.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"1\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm3dkn1ea003q3b72colse5fd@published\"><span class=\"slate-paragraph--tombstone\">\u2014Hillary<\/span><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"subhead subhead--none\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/subhead\/instances\/cm3dkrdld00483b728wbk5att@published\">\n<p>More Advice From Slate<\/p>\n<\/h3>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"138\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm3dkrfj8004a3b725ztbaeuf@published\">My 25-year-old daughter wants to spend Christmas with her dad (my ex-husband), and I am  furious. Four years ago, her dad blindsided me by announcing that he was divorcing me because he \u201cwas not happy and he thought he could become happy\u201d (with his secret affair partner of a couple of years, as I soon found out). 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