{"id":131168,"date":"2024-11-28T21:38:14","date_gmt":"2024-11-28T14:38:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hotvideos24.online\/?p=131168"},"modified":"2024-11-28T21:38:14","modified_gmt":"2024-11-28T14:38:14","slug":"everyone-thinks-my-husband-died-in-a-tragic-accident-but-i-know-the-truth","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hotvideos24.online\/?p=131168","title":{"rendered":"Everyone thinks my husband died in a tragic accident. But I know the truth."},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-3711241968723425\"\r\n     crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script>\r\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\r\n     style=\"display:block\"\r\n     data-ad-format=\"fluid\"\r\n     data-ad-layout-key=\"-fb+5w+4e-db+86\"\r\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-3711241968723425\"\r\n     data-ad-slot=\"7910942971\"><\/ins>\r\n<script>\r\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\r\n<\/script><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div itemprop=\"mainEntityOfPage\">\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"9\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm40fqudo0052vvl0bnb5xoql@published\"><em>Dear Prudence is Slate\u2019s advice column. <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/docs.google.com\/forms\/d\/e\/1FAIpQLSd_tjeEx47o2lIrDSg1Ioh_9shU0REmIAAtvoVHZj_FWz76AA\/viewform\"><strong><em>Submit questions here.<\/em><\/strong><\/a><em> <\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"2\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm40ft4hp00213571ggw4zh59@published\"><strong>Dear Prudence, <\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"109\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm40ft4j30023357124esydtn@published\">I\u2019ve been widowed for about 18 months. My husband died in a way that left a lot of questions. The police and coroner ruled it an accident, and I am entitled to his life insurance as a result. I\u2019m completely certain it was suicide. He didn\u2019t leave a note or anything, but it lines up with his behavior before death and some conversations we\u2019d had. He was under huge stress at work and was trying to quit his gambling addiction, and we\u2019d been talking about divorce if he couldn\u2019t stop. I feel sad and guilty but also so angry, and there\u2019s no one I can talk about it with.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"174\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm40ft4kw00273571r2d1nf95@published\">I\u2019m in a spousal grief group, but everyone is much older and lost husbands to cancer or things like that. Our town is small so I\u2019ve also looked online but I need to be with people in real life. I\u2019m on a waiting list for therapy. The one time I tried to talk about it as suicide with my in-laws, they shut me out, and my own family sees suicide as a religious sin so I can\u2019t talk to them. My friends didn\u2019t like him by the end and were encouraging the divorce, so I can\u2019t go to them because they seem to feel like his \u201caccidental\u201d death was hugely lucky. I\u2019m financially secure for the first time since we got married, and my stress levels and health have recovered in a big way, but I\u2019m still mourning him and I still loved him. I hate that we\u2019re all pretending he died by accident and it feels like I have to bottle up all the messy parts of my grief. What can I do?<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"1\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm40ft4mj00283571fohjxiyz@published\">\u2014Widowed<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"2\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm40ft4o3002a3571nyyuf4dp@published\"><strong>Dear Widowed,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"136\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm40ft4pt002c3571ct5ysgyd@published\">Being a widow sounds particularly tough in this case because not only are you experiencing your own grief, but there are also always people attempting to grieve, or not grieve, for you. It sounds like the circumstances of your late husband\u2019s life were complicated, to say the least, and his actions incited reactions from a lot of people in your orbit. I\u2019m sure that means they\u2019re all dealing with their own complicated versions of grief in the wake of his death. But that shouldn\u2019t be your problem. You need people you can talk to who aren\u2019t connected with your husband, and if you want, you or your community at all. There are lots of meeting spaces online for people in the throes of grief, down to niche groups like specific ones for young widows and widowers.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"69\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm40ft4rd002f3571c598wfi4@published\">These could be worth checking out, if only for the sense of community, which it seems like is the thing you could use the most right now. I\u2019m sorry for your loss, for your trouble, for your in-laws, and for what you feel you can\u2019t say to the people who are supposed to love you most. You deserve better, and it is my sincere hope that you find it.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"2\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm40ft4sq002g3571mo3yivsw@published\"><strong>Dear Prudence, <\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"225\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm40ft4u0002h357154tjn7hx@published\">I recently moved to the same city as my uncle. He lost his wife three years ago and is undergoing radiation treatment as well. They never had kids\u2014I am getting a lot of family pressure to help him out more and more. The problem is he is a loudmouth, racist, religious nut job who refuses to shut up. The man will dump is entire life story at the drop of a hat to anyone who he can corral to listen. His favorite victims are the employees at the local grocery store; he will literally block in an employee stocking the shelves to tell him how his cancer was a gift from Jesus because it allows him to minster to people and then proceed to interrogate them about how they need to ask God into their heart. I had to basically drag him to the checkout line and let the poor employee get back to work. The ride home was even worse because my uncle was going on and on about how his grandiose narcissism was going to save people\u2019s souls. Plus, God loves Trump. My mother claims he is just lonely and I will be old someday and my uncle deserves patience. I am about this close to popping the old man in the throat just to shut him up. I need some help here.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"3\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm40ft4va002i3571c5ou5efs@published\">\u2014Silence Is Golden<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"4\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm40ft4wi002j3571mjlxr8cb@published\"><strong>Dear Silence Is Golden,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"109\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm40ft4xt002k3571n24qt18q@published\">Sometimes, families do this thing where they encourage one person to help another member of the family, so they don\u2019t have to. It sounds to me like that\u2019s what\u2019s happening to you here. Differences of opinion are common, and any mentally and emotionally healthy person can usually navigate the ensuing moments of disagreement. However, what you\u2019re experiencing with your uncle isn\u2019t really about his opinions as much as his personality. Whether it is induced by loneliness or a lifelong commitment to being a jerk, your uncle seems to be practiced in antisocial behavior that doesn\u2019t really lead to something like, say, your nephew wanting to spend time around you.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"160\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm40ft4z7002l3571f46byp35@published\">If spending time with your uncle has become a task that costs you too much energy on an emotional level, it\u2019s time for your family to start contributing in the ways they insist you do. I understand that they may not live as close to him, but perhaps you could look at pooling funds to assist with rideshare or caretaking costs from professionals. Of course, this isn\u2019t an opportunity to just dump the man into someone else\u2019s arms and ask them from take it from here. Someone, maybe you, needs to let him know that his behavior isn\u2019t bringing people closer to him, it\u2019s pushing them away. Maybe offer him some suggestions to better connect to his family and community. In any event, you don\u2019t want to be in the position of his sole caregiver and company, and if you have people in your life insisting you do so, you must insist that they take part in his care, too.<\/p>\n<div class=\"prudie-google-form\" data-form-response-uri=\"https:\/\/docs.google.com\/forms\/u\/0\/d\/e\/1FAIpQLSd_tjeEx47o2lIrDSg1Ioh_9shU0REmIAAtvoVHZj_FWz76AA\/formResponse\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/prudie-google-form\/instances\/cm40fuc3a003j3571ndbhkhmr@published\">\n<p class=\"prudie-google-form__disclaimer\">\n      Please keep questions short (&lt;150 words), and don\u2018t submit the same question to multiple columns. We are unable to edit or remove questions after publication. Use pseudonyms to maintain anonymity. Your submission may be used in other Slate advice columns and may be edited for publication.\n    <\/p>\n<p>    <iframe class=\"js-hidden-iframe\" name=\"hidden_iframe\" id=\"hidden_iframe\" style=\"display:none;\" frameborder=\"0\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-notification--success js-success-message\" hidden=\"\">Thanks! Your question has been submitted.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"2\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm40ft520002n35715zsnp53j@published\"><strong>Dear Prudence, <\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"56\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm40ft53m002o3571n7vuzzbs@published\">My mother has been living in a house my father left me for the past few years. My parents divorced when I was very young and she was an infrequent presence in my life growing up, largely because of a host of mental health and dependency issues. She was essentially homeless for a couple of decades.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"140\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm40ft558002p35718n679xbv@published\">My dad left me a lot and I do well enough, so I guess I felt I could \u201csave\u201d her and have the relationship with her that I always yearned for. Instead, it has been a nightmare. I was smart enough to make her sign an agreement, which I regularly have to enforce to manage noise and other complaints from neighbors and the police. Recently, I was contacted by a realtor who informed me that my mother was trying to sell the house\u2014the one she doesn\u2019t own and that is not in her name. Since I put my foot down on that issue and warned her that I wouldn\u2019t put up with her behavior, her \u201cboyfriend\u201d has threatened to beat me up and she has subjected me to a series of vitriolic verbal attacks accusing me of stealing from her.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"83\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm40ft56b002q35719d4jo3y6@published\">I\u2019m at my wit\u2019s end and utterly heartbroken. I was trying to help and created a fantasy of this loving relationship. Instead, I am dealing with a psychotic, drug dependent stranger living in my house, but I cannot find the strength to cut ties and kick her and her sleazy friend out. Is there any other way forward? Or do I just have to toughen up and accept that this is the wrong well in which to be fishing for love and acceptance?<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"4\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm40ft5ag002r3571chzrkrmc@published\">\u2014Not Your Punching Bag<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"5\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm40ft5bw002s357154v9lege@published\"><strong>Dear Not Your Punching Bag,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"96\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm40ft5d7002t35719suixu4e@published\">You don\u2019t have to toughen up, throw her out, or sell the house. You just have to love yourself more than she seems capable of right now. Ask yourself, even though your mother clearly needs help, are you the one she\u2019s going to accept help from? What are you willing to lose, mentally and materially, if she never gets better? Those are tough questions to answer and I understand why you would hesitate to let your mind go there, but I believe that going <em>exactly <\/em>there will help you get closer to the answers you seek.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"152\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm40ft5eh002u3571td0hbvzw@published\">Your fantasy isn\u2019t just of a loving relationship, it\u2019s that at some point, her addiction has to end. The more likely truth is that it won\u2019t end well, and if it does, that can take a very long time. How long are you willing to wait, and again, what are you willing to lose in the process? Whether or not you accept that this is the wrong well to be fishing for love in, it is. So, what are you going to do with the truth? My suggestion? Tell your mom you love her and that you always will. Tell her you\u2019ll never stop hoping she\u2019s able to heal. Offer to connect her with resources, give her a month (or whatever feels reasonable) of notice, and tell her you need her to find another place to live. And even if enforcing that decision proves difficult, know that you\u2019re doing the right thing.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"17\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm40ft5fm002v35713n3xsdav@published\"><em>Want more Prudie? Slate Plus members get an additional column each week.\u00a0<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/my.slate.com\/prudie-plus\/?utm_medium=link&amp;utm_campaign=plus_support&amp;utm_content=pay_dirt&amp;utm_source=article\"><strong><em>Sign up for Slate Plus now<\/em><\/strong><\/a><strong><em>.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"2\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm40ft5gv002w3571apjzeyjy@published\"><strong>Dear Prudence, <\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"55\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm40ft5if002x3571wk5jbj2l@published\">I am a grandma whose grandkids (four of them) live out of state. I would love to maybe closer to any of them, but it\u2019s too late. I have brain cancer and I need my doctors. What can I do for them to show my love? Donate to a special cause? Would that be appropriate?<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"1\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm40ft5ju002y3571dw3qfy0q@published\">\u2014Lost<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"2\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm40ft5lf002z35712077kcba@published\"><strong>Dear Lost,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"105\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm40ft5my00303571qwm51wfk@published\">Though it\u2019s a lovely idea, I\u2019m sure that what your kids would like more than a donation to a charity is to hear from you more as whatever is to come comes. Now would be a great time to have meaningful conversations about how much you care for them, to make time for gathering;\u00a0even if you don\u2019t have the ability to move, you can be closer. Write them letters, send them videos from your phone, and say everything you ever wanted to say. Say it with love and your whole heart. That\u2019s so much better than any amount you could ever spend. Take good care.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"2\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm40ft5pt00323571d9360fwn@published\"><strong>Dear Prudence, <\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"104\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm40ft5sk00333571gtup87yx@published\">Earlier this year, we moved across the country, as my husband was offered his dream career opportunity. It\u2019s been nine months, and it has become apparent that this job is making him miserable. He was essentially brought in to rehab a failing department and has faced opposition from his peers and those who report to him any time he tries to implement a change. He really does want what is best for the department, but has encountered a culture that is deeply entrenched and resistant to change. He has some supporters, but he is very sensitive to negative feedback and feels he is failing.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"178\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm40ft5uo00343571sdbi6ewi@published\">I am trying to be a supportive and positive presence in his life, but his misery over his job is trickling into our personal life. He has taken to drinking as soon as he gets home from work until he goes to bed (at 8 p.m.). He has no energy on the weekends to go out or do all the things we looked forward to doing when we moved out here (the beach is five minutes away! We have three national parks within a 5-hour drive of us!). I walk on eggshells around him because his sensitivity to criticism and perception that he\u2019s failing seem to be on a hairpin trigger. If he tells me he\u2019s making eggs for breakfast and I say I\u2019m getting myself a bowl of cereal, suddenly it\u2019s me telling him he\u2019s not good enough. Any time I try to talk to him about how it\u2019s affecting me, he tells me I don\u2019t understand how stressful his job is and he can\u2019t \u201ctake on my issues\u201d because he has enough on his plate already.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"126\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm40ft5wq00353571itw76faa@published\">I love him and it is killing me to see my previously happy, fun-loving husband turning into this bitter, burnt-out man. I am so worried for him. I have asked him if maybe this job isn\u2019t for him and have pointed out that walking away from it to preserve his mental health isn\u2019t \u201cgiving up.\u201d He signed a contract for three years and feels he has to stick with it. (I work full time and we could definitely get by just on my salary for a bit.) I know he needs therapy, but he has refused any suggestion of it. In the meantime, what can I do? His commitment to white-knuckling through a job he hates while he\u2019s in sheer misery is making me miserable too.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"5\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm40ft5y000363571w2vfl7v1@published\">\u2014The Job\u2019s Not Worth It<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"4\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm40ft5zh00373571hndkxqh7@published\"><strong>Dear Not Worth It,<\/strong><\/p>\n<aside data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/in-article-recirc\/instances\/cm40fqudo0054vvl013eq3ofe@published\" class=\"in-article-recirc\" data-via=\"article-inline_recirc-section-advice\">\n<ol class=\"in-article-recirc__list\">\n<li class=\"in-article-recirc__item\">\n          <a href=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/advice\/2024\/11\/friend-moving-montana-cowboy-tradwife-dear-prudence-advice.html\" class=\"in-article-recirc__link\"><\/p>\n<p>            Help! My Friend Is Moving to Montana to Search for a Cowboy Millionaire.<br \/>\n          <\/a>\n        <\/li>\n<li class=\"in-article-recirc__item\">\n          <a href=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/advice\/2024\/11\/canceled-thanksgiving-family-advice-dear-prudence.html\" class=\"in-article-recirc__link\"><\/p>\n<p>            Help! I \u201cAccidentally\u201d Canceled My Entire Family\u2019s Thanksgiving. Oops.<br \/>\n          <\/a>\n        <\/li>\n<li class=\"in-article-recirc__item\">\n          <a href=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/advice\/2024\/11\/unconvetional-marriage-daughter-kids-parenting-advice.html\" class=\"in-article-recirc__link\"><\/p>\n<p>            My Daughter Has an \u201cUnconventional\u201d Marriage. I Don\u2019t Understand How She Could Accept This.<br \/>\n          <\/a>\n        <\/li>\n<li class=\"in-article-recirc__item\">\n          <a href=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/advice\/2024\/11\/parenting-advice-divorce-fighting-kids.html\" class=\"in-article-recirc__link\"><\/p>\n<p>            My Ex Somehow Convinced My Daughters I\u2019m the Winner in Our Divorce<br \/>\n          <\/a>\n        <\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/aside>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"111\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm40ft613003835715n4smvxd@published\">I understand your husband\u2019s desire to honor his commitments, but sometimes enough is enough. He will either have to find a way to communicate with his colleagues that leads to a better experience, find a new job, or start seeing a counselor who may be able to help him separate some of what he\u2019s experiencing at work from his life at home. I know it\u2019s taken so much work and coordination to get to where he is, and it will be hard to walk away from that if need be, but how much is it worth working hard at a job that steals your peace in other areas of your life?<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"128\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm40ft62h003935711c7e44k3@published\">It makes sense that your husband has been excited about an opportunity to climb the ladder in his company, but it is possible to find yourself halfway up the wrong ladder trying to decide if you should just keep climbing, or head back down and fight the right one. In this case, though your husband is resistant to it, it would most likely be better for you all in the long-term if he set out in search of a new ladder. If you can\u2019t get him to see a counselor, then he has to sit with you and come up with at least three ways for the two of you to start addressing this issue at home. Make him understand how serious this is. The sooner, the <span class=\"slate-paragraph--tombstone\">better.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"subhead subhead--none\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/subhead\/instances\/cm40ft4jm0025357183h1mr2f@published\">\n<p>Classic Prudie<\/p>\n<\/h3>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"121\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm40ft63t003a35718311p1fe@published\">My 27-year-old daughter has been with a guy (30 years old) for about a year that I initially had a lot of reservations about.\u00a0She told me that he had a hard childhood, past drug problems, and a daughter he does not see (according to him it\u2019s because the mother won\u2019t let him).\u00a0He recently told me that he had been in an elite military group. He said he didn\u2019t like to talk about it but wanted me to know about it.\u00a0At first, I thought that it explained a lot about him, he probably had PTSD. 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