{"id":133266,"date":"2024-12-04T16:46:47","date_gmt":"2024-12-04T09:46:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hotvideos24.online\/?p=133266"},"modified":"2024-12-04T16:46:47","modified_gmt":"2024-12-04T09:46:47","slug":"i-dont-think-i-ever-got-to-tell-him-i-was-sorry","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hotvideos24.online\/?p=133266","title":{"rendered":"I don&#8217;t think I ever got to tell him I was sorry"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-3711241968723425\"\r\n     crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script>\r\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\r\n     style=\"display:block\"\r\n     data-ad-format=\"fluid\"\r\n     data-ad-layout-key=\"-fb+5w+4e-db+86\"\r\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-3711241968723425\"\r\n     data-ad-slot=\"7910942971\"><\/ins>\r\n<script>\r\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\r\n<\/script><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.nme.com\/artists\/my-chemical-romance\">My Chemical Romance<\/a>\u00a0guitarist <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nme.com\/artists\/frank-iero\">Frank Iero<\/a> has paid tribute to his late ex-bandmate Bob Bryar, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nme.com\/news\/music\/bob-bryar-former-my-chemical-romance-drummer-has-died-aged-44-3817363\">who was found dead in his home last week aged 44<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Per\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.tmz.com\/2024\/11\/29\/bob-bryar-original-my-chemical-romance-drummer-dead-44\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>TMZ<\/em><\/a>, the drummer was discovered in his Tennessee home on November 26, after last being seen alive on November 4. The cause of death is not immediately known, but authorities have ruled out foul play, with his possessions, including musical equipment and weapons, untouched.<\/p>\n<p>Bryar was My Chemical Romance\u2019s longest-tenured drummer, performing with the band from 2004 until his departure in 2010. On Monday, the band shared a tribute <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nme.com\/news\/music\/my-chemical-romance-pay-tribute-to-bob-bryar-and-his-important-role-in-bands-history-3817980\">calling Bryar \u201can important part\u201d of their history<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>In an Instagram post shared yesterday (December 3), Iero wrote a lengthy tribute that reflected on his relationship with Bryar in the band.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI still don\u2019t feel like this is real\u2026 people your age, your peers, the ones you shared so much time and experience with aren\u2019t supposed to just suddenly leave your life forever,\u201d Iero began. \u201cBut I suppose permanence isn\u2019t really a concept humans are meant to understand.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><figure id=\"attachment_3817369\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3817369\" style=\"width: 2000px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-3817369\" src=\"https:\/\/www.nme.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Bob-Bryar-performing-with-My-Chemical-Romance-in-2007.-CREDIT_-Chris-McKay_WireImage.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"2000\" height=\"1270\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.nme.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Bob-Bryar-performing-with-My-Chemical-Romance-in-2007.-CREDIT_-Chris-McKay_WireImage.jpg 2000w, https:\/\/www.nme.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Bob-Bryar-performing-with-My-Chemical-Romance-in-2007.-CREDIT_-Chris-McKay_WireImage-400x254.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.nme.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Bob-Bryar-performing-with-My-Chemical-Romance-in-2007.-CREDIT_-Chris-McKay_WireImage-800x508.jpg 800w, https:\/\/www.nme.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Bob-Bryar-performing-with-My-Chemical-Romance-in-2007.-CREDIT_-Chris-McKay_WireImage-696x442.jpg 696w, https:\/\/www.nme.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Bob-Bryar-performing-with-My-Chemical-Romance-in-2007.-CREDIT_-Chris-McKay_WireImage-1392x884.jpg 1392w, https:\/\/www.nme.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/11\/Bob-Bryar-performing-with-My-Chemical-Romance-in-2007.-CREDIT_-Chris-McKay_WireImage-1068x678.jpg 1068w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 2000px) 100vw, 2000px\"\/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-3817369\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Bob Bryar performing with My Chemical Romance in 2007. CREDIT: Chris McKay\/WireImage<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/p>\n<p>Iero listed the \u201cthings that stuck out\u201d about Bryar: that he was \u201can enigma of sorts\u201d who \u201coften inhabited both ends of any spectrum at the same time.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHe was my friend and my bandmate, but he was also a stranger to me for most of my life,\u201d Iero added, admitting that their relationship was kept to living together \u201con and off the road\u201d and they would \u201ctrade a meme or photos of Lego builds\u201d. \u201cSomeone would leave the other on read and an indeterminate radio silence would follow,\u201d he wrote.<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"instagram-media\" data-instgrm-captioned=\"\" data-instgrm-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/DDIlWhqRm1p\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" data-instgrm-version=\"14\" style=\" background:#FFF; border:0; border-radius:3px; box-shadow:0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width:658px; min-width:326px; padding:0; width:99.375%; width:-webkit-calc(100% - 2px); width:calc(100% - 2px);\">\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019d hear rumblings of what he might be up to or some shit he\u2019d stirred up online, but that wasn\u2019t ever the person I was acquianted with,\u201d Iero stated, calling Bryar \u201cincredibly talented\u201d, \u201ceccentric as fuck\u201d, \u201cfunny as hell\u201d and someone \u201cconfident enough in his abilities to convince us that he was the right drummer for our band\u201d without hearing him play.<\/p>\n<p>Over the years, Iero found him \u201cincredibly self conscious and introverted whenever he felt placed outside of his comfort zone.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBob often got fixated on things to a point of obsession and he liked to make things difficult,\u201d Iero revealed. He recalled Bryar on the tour supporting 2006 album \u2018The Black Parade\u2019 when he \u201cdecided to position all of his drums flat so that there were no angles pointing toward him.\u201d It made playing \u201cmore uncomfortable\u201d and it would injure his wrists.<\/p>\n<p><figure id=\"attachment_3817984\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3817984\" style=\"width: 2000px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-3817984\" src=\"https:\/\/www.nme.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/my_chemical_romance-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"2000\" height=\"1270\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.nme.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/my_chemical_romance-1.jpg 2000w, https:\/\/www.nme.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/my_chemical_romance-1-400x254.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.nme.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/my_chemical_romance-1-800x508.jpg 800w, https:\/\/www.nme.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/my_chemical_romance-1-696x442.jpg 696w, https:\/\/www.nme.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/my_chemical_romance-1-1392x884.jpg 1392w, https:\/\/www.nme.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/my_chemical_romance-1-1068x678.jpg 1068w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2000px) 100vw, 2000px\"\/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-3817984\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Frank Iero, Mikey Way, Bob Bryar and Gerard Way of My Chemical at Shoreline Amphitheatre on July 29, 2007 in Mountain View, California. (Photo by Tim Mosenfelder\/Getty Images)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/p>\n<p>Iero remembered Bryar as the band member he \u201crelated to the most\u201d because of his sense of humour that was \u201cdark as fuck just like mine\u201d. They had planned to get \u201csemi matching tattoos\u201d that each could fill in with marker pens each day on tour \u201cwhen we undoubtedly found a new thing that got on our nerves.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>However, Iero noted, \u201cthere were also times when I think Bob disliked me immensely, and wished he could kick me out of the band.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>He would describe Bryar as someone who loved animals, and that an incident involving the death of Bryar\u2019s dog \u201cwrecked him emotionally.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The incident was a turning point in his relationship with the band, Iero continued, saying that \u201che just couldn\u2019t keep it together anymore\u201d and that his \u201csadness, anger and distrust were too much to handle and took over all aspects.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>In 2022 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nme.com\/news\/music\/ex-my-chemical-romance-drummer-bob-bryar-selling-the-black-parade-uniform-on-ebay-3335202\">Bryar announced he would be selling his original \u2018Black Parade\u2019 uniform<\/a>\u00a0and using money from the sale to help \u201cabandoned and sheltered animals in areas of Florida and South Carolina that are affected by Hurricane Ian\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Iero revealed that he told Bryar in confidence that they could talk about his feelings and \u201ccome up with a way to either fix the situation or figure out a plan\u201d to discuss it with the rest of the band.<\/p>\n<p><figure id=\"attachment_3818542\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3818542\" style=\"width: 1700px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-3818542\" src=\"https:\/\/www.nme.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/MyChemicalRomance-2000s-Getty.jpg\" alt=\"My Chemical Romance\" width=\"1700\" height=\"1194\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.nme.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/MyChemicalRomance-2000s-Getty.jpg 1700w, https:\/\/www.nme.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/MyChemicalRomance-2000s-Getty-400x281.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.nme.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/MyChemicalRomance-2000s-Getty-800x562.jpg 800w, https:\/\/www.nme.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/MyChemicalRomance-2000s-Getty-696x489.jpg 696w, https:\/\/www.nme.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/MyChemicalRomance-2000s-Getty-1392x978.jpg 1392w, https:\/\/www.nme.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/MyChemicalRomance-2000s-Getty-1068x750.jpg 1068w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1700px) 100vw, 1700px\"\/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-3818542\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">My Chemical Romance in the 2000s, with Frank Iero pictured right and Bob Bryar far-right. CREDIT: Mick Hutson\/Redferns<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBut ultimately it was a bandaid that didn\u2019t hold, the damage was done and Bob was too far gone,\u201d Iero reflected, adding that he told Bryar that \u201che was out of the band.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Iero added that he had tried \u201ca few times\u201d to reach out to Bryar since then, but he \u201cpolitely made it impossible\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI don\u2019t think I ever got to tell him I was sorry, I don\u2019t know if it would have mattered\u2026 but I do wish like hell I finished the text conversation we had back in September,\u201d Iero concluded. \u201cI hope you found some peace, BC. I\u2019m glad the universe let me know you for a while.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Iero then shared pictures of the duo from their time together in the band, including the tattoo that Iero had meant to get with Bob. Read the full post <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/DDIlWhqRm1p\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">here<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>In a statement at the time, Iero\u00a0wrote on the band\u2019s blog: \u201cAs of four weeks ago, My Chemical Romance and Bob Bryar parted ways. This was a painful decision for all of us to make and was not taken lightly. We wish him the best of luck in his future endeavours, and expect you all to do the same.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Bryar struck up a friendship with My Chemical Romance during their tour with\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.nme.com\/artists\/the-used\">The Used<\/a>\u00a0in 2004, and soon after became their drummer for their tour that year in Japan \u2013 replacing previous drummer Matt Pelissier.<\/p>\n<p>His contributions can be heard on My Chemical Romance\u2019s seminal 2006 album \u2018The Black Parade\u2019, the band\u2019s most commercially and critically successful record. It debuted at number two in the United States on the Billboard 200, as well as on the UK Albums Chart.<\/p>\n<p>In the subsequent years, Bryar continued to play drums, before announcing his retirement from music in 2014 to become a real estate agent.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><script>\n  !function(f,b,e,v,n,t,s)\n  {if(f.fbq)return;n=f.fbq=function(){n.callMethod?\n  n.callMethod.apply(n,arguments):n.queue.push(arguments)};\n  if(!f._fbq)f._fbq=n;n.push=n;n.loaded=!0;n.version='2.0';\n  n.queue=[];t=b.createElement(e);t.async=!0;\n  t.src=v;s=b.getElementsByTagName(e)[0];\n  s.parentNode.insertBefore(t,s)}(window, document,'script',\n  'https:\/\/connect.facebook.net\/en_US\/fbevents.js');\n  fbq('consent', 'revoke');\n  fbq('init', '370979561341328');\n  fbq('track', 'PageView');\n<\/script><script async src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><br \/>\n<br \/><script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-3711241968723425\"\r\n     crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script>\r\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\r\n     style=\"display:block\"\r\n     data-ad-format=\"fluid\"\r\n     data-ad-layout-key=\"-fb+5w+4e-db+86\"\r\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-3711241968723425\"\r\n     data-ad-slot=\"7910942971\"><\/ins>\r\n<script>\r\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\r\n<\/script><br \/>\n<br \/><div data-type=\"_mgwidget\" data-widget-id=\"1660802\">\r\n<\/div>\r\n<script>(function(w,q){w[q]=w[q]||[];w[q].push([\"_mgc.load\"])})(window,\"_mgq\");\r\n<\/script>\r\n<br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.nme.com\/news\/music\/my-chemical-romances-frank-iero-pays-tribute-to-late-ex-drummer-bob-bryar-i-dont-think-i-ever-got-to-tell-him-i-was-sorry-3818536\">Source link <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My Chemical Romance\u00a0guitarist Frank Iero has paid tribute to his late ex-bandmate Bob Bryar, who was found dead in his home last week aged 44. 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