{"id":137435,"date":"2024-12-15T21:12:11","date_gmt":"2024-12-15T14:12:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hotvideos24.online\/?p=137435"},"modified":"2024-12-15T21:12:11","modified_gmt":"2024-12-15T14:12:11","slug":"my-brothers-wife-returned-home-to-find-him-dead-but-i-think-she-is-to-blame","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hotvideos24.online\/?p=137435","title":{"rendered":"My brother&#8217;s wife returned home to find him dead. But I think she is to blame."},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-3711241968723425\"\r\n     crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script>\r\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\r\n     style=\"display:block\"\r\n     data-ad-format=\"fluid\"\r\n     data-ad-layout-key=\"-fb+5w+4e-db+86\"\r\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-3711241968723425\"\r\n     data-ad-slot=\"7910942971\"><\/ins>\r\n<script>\r\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\r\n<\/script><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div itemprop=\"mainEntityOfPage\">\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"16\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4n1dpg0000grjl0l12tl8p5@published\"><em>Care and Feeding is Slate\u2019s parenting advice column.\u00a0<\/em><strong><em>Have a question for Care and Feeding?\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/forms.gle\/4BXEw8Wtcd7aAyXh9\"><strong><em>Submit it here<\/em><\/strong><\/a><strong><em>.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"4\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4n1gw3f00303b72wpymun0p@published\"><strong>Dear Care and Feeding,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"211\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4n1fozp001f3b72880ku3xl@published\">I believe that my brother\u2019s wife killed him. On Thanksgiving, when they were over for dinner, my brother complained of pain and swelling in his calf muscle. My sister-in-law dismissed it. She said he had probably just \u201cpulled a muscle.\u201d But my brother said he couldn\u2019t think of anything he had done that might have caused that. The pain continued all afternoon, and while he was hobbling around, he mentioned several times that maybe they should go to an urgent care to get it checked out. His wife downplayed it, said it was \u201cjust a cramp,\u201d pointed out that it was a holiday, so nothing would be open, gave him some Tylenol, and told him he could put a heating pad on it when they got home. I mentioned that most muscle cramps last only a few minutes, not hours; I agreed with my brother that they should check it out. Unheeded advice. Friday, late morning, we received a call that my sister-in-law, coming home from Black Friday shopping, found my brother on the floor. He was pronounced dead by the paramedics; no life-saving measures were taken. The preliminary (and probable actual) cause of death was determined to be a blood clot in his leg that had traveled to his heart.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"95\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4n1fp1k001g3b72qlyhfy9d@published\">My SIL has a history of being cheap about going to the doctor. One of their kids broke their finger when they were younger, and she put it off as a sprain. Just last winter <em>she<\/em> was in the hospital for pneumonia because she put the symptoms off as \u201cjust a cold.\u201d There are many other examples of where medical attention should have been sought but wasn\u2019t, or not until after the condition worsened. Now she has asked me to help her with sorting and putting up for sale my brother\u2019s \u201cman stuff\u201d (tools, etc.).<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"137\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4n1fp3e001h3b723mhn0ao5@published\">I can\u2019t even look her in the eye, let alone help her, knowing that if they had sought medical attention on Thanksgiving, my brother might (and probably would) still be alive. The excuse I am giving her right now is that I am still grieving too much to take this on\u2014the funeral was so recent!\u2014but I know that excuse can only go on for so long. She thinks what happened was an unavoidable \u201caccident\u201d and has no guilt about it, which bothers me a lot. I have even thought about going to the police and explaining what happened but my wife says that wouldn\u2019t do any good. What should I do to get over my anger with my SIL? Just go ahead and accuse her of killing my brother, so I can get it off my chest?<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"5\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4n1fp5e001i3b72zj1qlism@published\">\u2014My Brother\u2019s Wife Killed Him<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"2\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4n1fp7l001j3b72o6aktun5@published\"><strong>Dear Brother,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"83\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4n1fp9i001k3b72zw16mps7@published\">I am very sorry for your loss. Of course, you\u2019re grieving\u2014that\u2019s not an excuse; it\u2019s the truth. But I must tell you gently that your anger at your brother\u2019s wife is misplaced. Your brother was an adult who could have decided to leave the gathering and seek medical attention. If his wife refused to drive him, you or someone else could have offered to. If none of you were willing or able to, he could have called for an Uber. Or even 911.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"70\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4n1fpbp001l3b72bm1k68vz@published\">The problem here seems to have been that everyone was cowed by your sister-in-law, who seems to call all the shots, and no one, including your brother, wanted to rock the boat\u2014which contradicting his wife would have done. I am not suggesting that you and your entire family should carry the guilt you wish your sister-in-law felt about her husband\u2019s death. But it isn\u2019t fair to consider her the \u201ckiller.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"116\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4n1fpdf001m3b72et04yri0@published\"><em>I<\/em> wish your brother had stood up for himself. I wish (less significantly) he\u2019d insisted that their child\u2019s finger be examined rather than written off as a sprain, and that, for your sister-in-law\u2019s own sake, both he <em>and<\/em> she had taken her upper respiratory symptoms seriously before they developed into pneumonia and she landed in the hospital. There\u2019s not much use in dwelling on what could\u2019ve been, but perhaps, having established the habit of asserting himself, your brother might have been able to take himself to the ER that night; perhaps, having been proved right so many times, his wife might not have been so resistant to his seeing a doctor on that fateful, terrible Thursday.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"167\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4n1fpf6001n3b72sc249z9m@published\">In any case, you might do yourself a favor and have a conversation with her\u2014one in which you express your remorse over not insisting that your brother go to the hospital \u201cwhether he wanted to or not,\u201d and your wish that you had known what was actually going on with him. Perhaps that would give her a chance to open up about any guilt she may be doing her best to conceal (or not to feel at all). But even if it doesn\u2019t\u2014even if she maintains that what happened was unavoidable (and cluelessly assures you that you have nothing to feel guilty about)\u2014you will have found a way to get out into the open the fundamental fact that you feel certain your brother should have sought help then and there, and that if he had, he might still be alive. Your anger is bigger, wider, and probably more complicated than you think it is. Making your sister-in-law its scapegoat is not going to help you feel better.<\/p>\n<div class=\"prudie-google-form\" data-form-response-uri=\"https:\/\/docs.google.com\/forms\/u\/0\/d\/e\/1FAIpQLSeI516MVbV7en9S-8krL2zppY_GWq-qad7K_P7iUvxcD7t6vA\/formResponse\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/prudie-google-form\/instances\/cm4n1hzi0003n3b72zoknqusc@published\">\n<p class=\"prudie-google-form__disclaimer\">\n      Please keep questions short (&lt;150 words), and don\u2018t submit the same question to multiple columns. We are unable to edit or remove questions after publication. Use pseudonyms to maintain anonymity. Your submission may be used in other Slate advice columns and may be edited for publication.\n    <\/p>\n<p>    <iframe class=\"js-hidden-iframe\" name=\"hidden_iframe\" id=\"hidden_iframe\" style=\"display:none;\" frameborder=\"0\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-notification--success js-success-message\" hidden=\"\">Thanks! Your question has been submitted.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"4\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4n1fw71001q3b728vf2lg4s@published\"><strong>Dear Care and Feeding,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"160\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4n1fwqs001u3b726jwxt8dv@published\">My brother just informed me his family will not attend the baby shower I am throwing for my only child. They do not like her.\u00a0 She has borderline personality disorder, and she can throw some vicious one-liners. They\u2019ve chosen through the years to have little contact with her, even though my brother and I are close. His family\u2019s relationship with my parents and me has been cordial, but they have done nothing to have a relationship with my daughter (and vice-versa).\u00a0 I would like them to attend the shower for the first and probably only baby our family will see in the next generation.\u00a0 It will hurt me and my parents if they do not attend, and their continued refusal to have anything to do with her will only do more damage as time passes. I want them to do this for the family\u2014it\u2019s the right thing to do! They should join us at this celebration. What do you think?<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"3\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4n1fwqu001v3b7212l1bpmz@published\">\u2014In the Middle<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"2\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4n1fwqu001w3b72rvmhb75r@published\"><strong>Dear Middle,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"135\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4n1fwqu001x3b72cjivzar0@published\">I think you can\u2019t force people into relationships with each other, and that it\u2019s unwise of you to try to turn a baby shower into a family-loyalty test, or a referendum on the future of your brother\u2019s family\u2019s relationship with your grandchild-to-be. You\u2019ve invited them; they\u2019ve declined to attend (that is an invited guest\u2019s prerogative). I assume you invited your brother\u2019s whole brood as a unit, and that\u2019s why he was the one to RSVP on their behalf. (If you wanted to force each member of his family to individually address their feelings about their niece\/cousin, so that you\u2019d have the chance to engage with each of them, one-on-one, about this, instead of all of you relying on\u2014or hiding behind\u2014your brother, you might have sent separate invitations to each. But why force it, after all?)<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"139\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4n1fwqv001y3b72ru1oii1c@published\">I will say that demanding that people do something \u201cfor the family\u201d that they don\u2019t want to do is a path to estrangement. If you would prefer that to the cordial but not close relationship you currently have with your sister-in-law and her children\u2014and are willing to risk losing your brother, too (which, if you make him choose, you very well might)\u2014then you can keep pushing. But if I were you, I\u2019d celebrate the impending birth of my daughter\u2019s child only with people who love her and <em>want<\/em> to be there. And later, when the baby arrives, stand down and see what happens. Babies sometimes have a way of bringing families together. Not that you should count on it. If your daughter is awful to her aunt and cousins, even a baby may not help. But you never know.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"subhead subhead--none\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/subhead\/instances\/cm4n1hrzw003e3b726u5fhftv@published\">\n<p>Catch Up on Care and Feeding<\/p>\n<\/h3>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"14\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4n1hrzw003f3b72zvtjytb1@published\">\u00b7\u00a0<em>Missed earlier columns this week?\u00a0<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/human-interest\/care-and-feeding\"><em>Read them here<\/em><\/a><em>.<\/em><br \/>\u00b7\u00a0<em>Discuss this column in the\u00a0<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/groups\/slateparenting\/\"><em>Slate Parenting Facebook group<\/em><\/a><em>!<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"4\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4n1g5sb00213b72gmp44yte@published\"><strong>Dear Care and Feeding,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"114\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4n1g8bn00253b72oygilqbt@published\">I have a 12-year-old daughter who doesn\u2019t like school. She gets decent grades and is smart, but prefers to do her own thing. When middle school started, she began to be sick all the time. In the morning she would say things like, \u201cI was up all night long on the toilet. I have diarrhea. My head is killing me. My throat hurts.\u201d\u00a0 She says this so convincingly it\u2019s hard to tell when it\u2019s the truth or she\u2019s making it up\u2014but when I let her stay home, I often find out later that she had a math test that day, is having trouble with a kid in gym, or just didn\u2019t <em>want<\/em> to go.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"118\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4n1g8bn00263b72msq3avy3@published\">Sometimes she really is sick, but the many lies have made it impossible for me to tell! She will put on a big show and insist that she can\u2019t go to school, and instead of having compassion for her and taking care of her, I have to tell her I just don\u2019t believe her. Then she\u2019ll flat-out <em>refuse<\/em> to go. She is generally an avoider of tasks she doesn\u2019t prefer (aren\u2019t we all, really?), but this situation is frustrating and irritating to me because she gets behind on assignments and her grades suffer. How can I tell the real sickness from the fake sickness? And what kind of consequences can we give her when she does stay home?<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"4\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4n1g8bn00273b72t3ki6g6n@published\">\u2014I Don\u2019t Believe You<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"2\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4n1g8bn00283b729rr64371@published\"><strong>Dear Believe,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"166\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4n1g8bn00293b723bziayzx@published\">I can imagine how frustrating this must be for you. But it may help if you take a step back from your irritation to ask an entirely different question. Don\u2019t try to figure out how to sniff out the lie, how to punish her when you learn that she <em>has<\/em> lied, or how to make staying home so unpleasant for her that she reserves this option only for when she is so deathly ill, she has no choice but to stay in bed. What if, instead, you focused on the things that are happening in her life with which she can see no way to cope except by avoidance, which also involves lying to you? And helping her develop the skills and strategies she needs (we all need!) to deal with what she fears, dreads, or just dislikes\u2014since right now she is using the only strategy she knows of, and (unlike you, the grown-up) isn\u2019t considering the larger consequences of each short-term avoidance of a problem.<\/p>\n<aside data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/in-article-recirc\/instances\/cm4n1dpg0000irjl0bvi15aod@published\" class=\"in-article-recirc\" data-via=\"article-inline_recirc-section-advice\">\n<ol class=\"in-article-recirc__list\">\n<li class=\"in-article-recirc__item\">\n          <a href=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/advice\/2024\/12\/nephew-lesson-gambling-family-advice.html\" class=\"in-article-recirc__link\"><\/p>\n<p>            I Decided to Teach My Young Nephew an Important Lesson During a Round of Pool. 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But I Can\u2019t Tell Her the Truth.<br \/>\n          <\/a>\n        <\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/aside>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"220\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4n1g8bo002a3b72yo9lywoi@published\">Take them one at a time. Math is hard? \u201cAll right, I get it\u2014math was hard for me too. [Or: <em>I felt the same way about science\/history\/Spanish.<\/em>] Let\u2019s brainstorm ways to make it less hard.\u201d Working with a tutor? Changing the way homework and studying get done (maybe math first, while she\u2019s still relatively fresh and has the brain power for it)? Helping her learn the good study habits she\u2019ll need for years to come? Having a real conversation with her about what tests are <em>for<\/em>? (I\u2019ve had this conversation with 18-year-olds to whom it has never occurred that a test doesn\u2019t have to be a hoop to be jumped through, but can be a \u201ctrick\u201d to get them to learn what they need to learn, and then to let them and the teacher administering it know what they still need to work on.) What kind of trouble is a kid giving her at school? Let\u2019s strategize about how to deal with that. And what does, \u201cI just don\u2019t feel like going to school\u201d actually mean? Don\u2019t take it at face value. Ask her to talk about it. Talk to her about what you do and what others do when they have an obligation they don\u2019t feel like fulfilling. (But please don\u2019t say, \u201cYou just have to suck it up.\u201d)<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"151\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4n1g8bp002b3b72u8hndyn8@published\">If you have real conversations with her about all this, she may begin to trust you; she may stop feeling that she has to lie to you. And when she tells you the truth, practice compassion, patience, and understanding in your response to her\u2014and, yes, sometimes do allow her a \u201cmental health day\u201d when she makes it clear she really needs it. I allowed my child to give herself a day off several times a year. She knew she had to choose them carefully, as they weren\u2019t limitless, and she chose fewer and fewer as time went on. By high school, she abstained from taking them at all\u2014though she still had the option to\u2014because she didn\u2019t want to miss the work and have to make it up. 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