{"id":138749,"date":"2024-12-19T10:57:40","date_gmt":"2024-12-19T03:57:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/hotvideos24.online\/?p=138749"},"modified":"2024-12-19T10:57:40","modified_gmt":"2024-12-19T03:57:40","slug":"i-want-to-invite-our-neighbor-to-have-sex-with-us-i-have-one-problem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hotvideos24.online\/?p=138749","title":{"rendered":"I want to invite our neighbor to have sex with us. I have one problem."},"content":{"rendered":"<p> <script async src=\"https:\/\/pagead2.googlesyndication.com\/pagead\/js\/adsbygoogle.js?client=ca-pub-3711241968723425\"\r\n     crossorigin=\"anonymous\"><\/script>\r\n<ins class=\"adsbygoogle\"\r\n     style=\"display:block\"\r\n     data-ad-format=\"fluid\"\r\n     data-ad-layout-key=\"-fb+5w+4e-db+86\"\r\n     data-ad-client=\"ca-pub-3711241968723425\"\r\n     data-ad-slot=\"7910942971\"><\/ins>\r\n<script>\r\n     (adsbygoogle = window.adsbygoogle || []).push({});\r\n<\/script><br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div itemprop=\"mainEntityOfPage\">\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"18\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4uatu9p003e8jkym7u21x0k@published\"><em>How to Do It is Slate\u2019s sex advice column.\u00a0<\/em><strong><em>Have a question?\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/docs.google.com\/forms\/d\/e\/1FAIpQLSdx34-uOijrCIKqMdw5hnyYahSJBKa4AaSzDCu1nfcpmd3IjA\/viewform\"><strong><em>Send it to Jessica and Rich here<\/em><\/strong><\/a><strong><em>.<\/em><\/strong><em>\u00a0It\u2019s anonymous!<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"5\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4uavxz6003c3b72hdz3llqd@published\"><strong>Dear How to Do It,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"53\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4uauioo00173b72iwvokwbe@published\">My wife and I are both in our 70s. We are still sexually active on a weekly basis. My wife enjoys\u00a0sex and wants to include our neighbor who is a good friend. I have hinted this to him and know he is interested. But how do we go about extending the formal invite?<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"2\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4uauir500183b72vin5ib6p@published\">\u2014You\u2019re Invited<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"3\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4uauj2700193b72l5rjd8ik@published\"><strong>Dear You\u2019re Invited,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"140\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4uauj4o001a3b72y3mf9qzy@published\">This is so exciting. You\u2019re already on the right path. You can extend the formal invite in multiple ways. Since you know he\u2019s interested, you risk very little in coming right out and asking, \u201cDo you want to join us in bed sometime?\u201d If that seems too forward, you could invite him out to dinner with your wife, and talk about it, just the three of you. Or, you could just build on the interest that you know is there and invite him over to hang out, figuring whatever happens, happens. In a situation like this, I find it useful to begin talking about sex more generally. That can lube up a conversation, if you will, and it\u2019s sometimes not a great leap from talking about sex in the abstract to talking about it more specifically with the people present.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"29\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4uauj6w001b3b72j0ofrxqi@published\">The situation you describe suggests the deal, as it were, is already in place\u2014you just have to seal it. Be friendly and welcoming and you should do just fine.<\/p>\n<div class=\"prudie-google-form\" data-form-response-uri=\"https:\/\/docs.google.com\/forms\/u\/0\/d\/e\/1FAIpQLSdx34-uOijrCIKqMdw5hnyYahSJBKa4AaSzDCu1nfcpmd3IjA\/formResponse\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/prudie-google-form\/instances\/cm4ub02s8003p3b723bohnm98@published\">\n<p class=\"prudie-google-form__disclaimer\">\n      Please keep questions short (&lt;150 words), and don\u2018t submit the same question to multiple columns. We are unable to edit or remove questions after publication. Use pseudonyms to maintain anonymity. Your submission may be used in other Slate advice columns and may be edited for publication.\n    <\/p>\n<p>    <iframe class=\"js-hidden-iframe\" name=\"hidden_iframe\" id=\"hidden_iframe\" style=\"display:none;\" frameborder=\"0\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-notification--success js-success-message\" hidden=\"\">Thanks! Your question has been submitted.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"5\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4uaupmk001g3b72frw5fjju@published\"><strong>Dear How to Do It,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"117\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4uauq87001m3b72arvuoyuz@published\">I am a gay man who is in his early 30s. Since my late teens, I have struggled to find sexual gratification. I\u2019ve only had a legit orgasm three to four times. Many guys have issues with my body or (perceived lack of) endowment; I\u2019ve wanted to top more often but nearly universally, I get deemed inadequate to meet the role. Also, some of the rejection is directly related to not being considered masculine enough to be taken seriously as a top. I\u2019m sick of always being labeled the bottom, and my confidence as a top is low. How can I take charge of my sex life despite not meeting the desirability metrics that seem to exist?<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"7\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4uauq88001n3b72a3ltwo22@published\">\u2014A Verse Guy Who Gets Stuck Bottoming<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"3\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4uauq88001o3b72s2q38nq8@published\"><strong>Dear Stuck Bottoming,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"84\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4uauq88001p3b72pdrn9416@published\">If you\u2019re keeping things in the realm of the superficial\u2014that is, the gay meat market via hook-up apps, sex parties, bathhouses, etc.\u2014you will likely need to make superficial adjustments. This means, at minimum, advertising yourself as a top (it\u2019s a generally accepted truism of gay life that there\u2019s a shortage of tops) and perhaps starting to put muscle on your body to look more like the status quo image of one. You could take advantage of no-loads-refused gang bangs to get in some practice.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"139\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4uauq89001q3b72gxqn1nmp@published\">What you should be asking yourself, though, is: \u201cDo I actually want to do this stuff?\u201d You can play the game, but the game is limited by its own rules. I think it would be better to find other versatile partners with whom you can build connections\u2014people who aren\u2019t merely looking at you for what you represent (a hole destroyer) or what you can give them (some dick with which you will destroy their holes). I\u2019m talking about partners who accept the fullness of your humanity and want to help you explore. It\u2019s not easy to build these connections. It can take time. It might mean putting work into a friend with benefits arrangement or two\u2014being upfront about wanting more than just a single encounter, staying in touch, making time to see them, and stating your desire to top.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"77\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4uauq8a001r3b72ohn4ow8r@published\">Aside from surgery, there isn\u2019t much you can do about your size, but you can at least carry yourself like a hung guy does. Don\u2019t let past comments about your endowment affect your behavior. Wield that dick like it\u2019s a 9-incher. Confidence can go a long way. I know you specifically said you are lacking it, but it\u2019s a very fake-it-till-you-make-it sensibility. When people respond well to your masquerade, it can <em>become<\/em> genuine confidence, just like that.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"67\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4uauq8a001s3b723frpc6me@published\">You mentioned your lack of orgasms. Surely you are aware that you can masturbate too? If it\u2019s an issue beyond not getting the chance to top\u2014say you\u2019re masturbating regularly to no orgasm\u2014consider seeing a doctor. <a href=\"https:\/\/my.clevelandclinic.org\/health\/diseases\/24640-anorgasmia\">Anorgasmia can be the sign of a greater issue<\/a>\u2014something hormonal, pelvic floor dysfunction, and medical conditions like multiple sclerosis, among them. You should make sure everything is in working order before proceeding.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"27\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4ub0enm00423b72hpib7eio@published\"><em>Help us keep giving the advice you crave every week. Slate Plus members get additional How to Do It columns each week.\u00a0<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/my.slate.com\/plus\/?utm_medium=link&amp;utm_campaign=plus_support&amp;utm_content=advice_columns&amp;utm_source=article\"><strong><em>Sign up for Slate Plus now<\/em><\/strong><\/a><strong><em>.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"5\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4uav0hy001x3b72koiyuhxy@published\"><strong>Dear How to Do It,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"64\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4uav12j00233b72vcjqhxbg@published\">I\u2019m a 34-year-old woman, and I\u2019ve been married to a wonderful guy for about eight years. I recently had surgery on my throat, and I\u2019ve been on strict vocal rest for almost two months. We haven\u2019t had sex, as even something that makes me grunt is supposed to be avoided, but that period of enforced silence is going to end in a few weeks.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"187\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4uav12k00243b72m7acng3u@published\">The issue is that I\u2019ve realized I rather enjoyed keeping things to just hugs and cuddles. I\u2019ve always had a much lower sex drive than my husband, and I think I might be somewhere on the asexual spectrum since my preference for sex would be maybe two to three times a year. This isn\u2019t just with him, I\u2019ve never been raring to go with anyone. I still remember being teased in middle school because I wasn\u2019t interested in anyone. Don\u2019t get me wrong, I do enjoy sex when we have it, but a lot of that is seeing his happiness and making him lose that tight control he normally displays. Still, I know he\u2019d never be happy if we kept to my ideal schedule. We have sex several times a month. I know it\u2019s still less than he\u2019d like, but it\u2019s a workable compromise for both of us. Or was, anyway. A part of me isn\u2019t looking forward to resuming a sex life with him. But I do love him dearly, and I definitely want to stay with him. He\u2019d never be happy in a sexless marriage.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"101\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4uav12l00263b72s61vy3va@published\">We did discuss opening the relationship years ago. But I quickly realized I was not keen on the idea, and thinking about it more now as I\u2019m writing this, I still don\u2019t like the thought of him with another woman. But I don\u2019t see a way to make this work; no option involves me not having sex except on a blue moon, him having sex on the regular, but not with anyone else. And I want to stay with him, very badly. He\u2019s kind, gentle, funny, and makes me feel good about myself. I don\u2019t know how to make this work.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"4\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4uav12m00273b72fx89aub6@published\">\u2014Looking for Workable Options<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"5\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4uav12m00283b7270gdvj0p@published\"><strong>Dear Looking for Workable Options,<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"145\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4uav12m00293b72abgeoljp@published\">What I\u2019m reading is that there are things in place that make your sexual relationship with your husband a fundamental mismatch. But you want to forge ahead with your marriage nonetheless, so there will be sacrifices. You both have to decide what the least bad option is here. Cutting your husband off from sex entirely, or even almost entirely isn\u2019t the answer. The chances of that blowing up are high, and you may find that one day a decision has been made <em>for you<\/em> (this could include him cheating, leaving, and\/or voicing his frustration in ways that aren\u2019t especially constructive). Right now, it seems you\u2019re very much in your head about this\u2014discussing it with your husband will bring in a crucial voice of influence: his. You don\u2019t have to abide by his solutions for your predicament, but you should at least get his perspective here.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"153\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4uav12n002a3b72v6lhax3m@published\">You\u2019d previously reached a compromise, even if it wasn\u2019t packaged as such: You gave a bit more than you were inclined to give sexually, and he got a bit less than he wanted. If you want to alter this by offering less opportunity for sex, what adjustment might you make to compensate? Is it just patting your husband and saying, \u201cToo bad, so sad\u201d? That\u2019s probably not going to go over well. It might be worth working through (by yourself, with your husband, and\/or with a counselor of some sort) the issues you would have with your husband being with another woman. You might never get to the point where you\u2019re cool with that, and that\u2019s OK\u2014non-monogamy isn\u2019t for everybody. But I think it\u2019s important to determine whether your feelings are the product of a knee-jerk response to something interfering with the norms of our monogamous culture, or whether there\u2019s something deeper there.<\/p>\n<aside data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/in-article-recirc\/instances\/cm4uatu9p003g8jkyj04y60ge@published\" class=\"in-article-recirc\" data-via=\"article-inline_recirc-section-advice\">\n<ol class=\"in-article-recirc__list\">\n<li class=\"in-article-recirc__item\">\n          <a href=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/advice\/2024\/12\/marriage-advice-husband-shooting-blanks-pregnancy-azoospermia.html\" class=\"in-article-recirc__link\"><\/p>\n<p>            I Just Learned That My Husband Is Shooting Blanks. I\u2019m Considering a Drastic Measure.<br \/>\n          <\/a>\n        <\/li>\n<li class=\"in-article-recirc__item\">\n          <a href=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/advice\/2024\/12\/date-volunteer-group-gossip-dating-advice.html\" class=\"in-article-recirc__link\"><\/p>\n<p>            Help! I Went on a Date With a Guy I Volunteer With. Now He\u2019s Gossiping About Me Like a Teen.<br \/>\n          <\/a>\n        <\/li>\n<li class=\"in-article-recirc__item\">\n          <a href=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/advice\/2024\/12\/girlfriend-family-free-food-complaints-advice.html\" class=\"in-article-recirc__link\"><\/p>\n<p>            Help! I Bring My Girlfriend\u2019s Family Free Food. But They Have the Gall to Make Complaints.<br \/>\n          <\/a>\n        <\/li>\n<li class=\"in-article-recirc__item\">\n          <a href=\"https:\/\/slate.com\/advice\/2024\/12\/father-in-law-abandoned-family-christmas-parenting-advice.html\" class=\"in-article-recirc__link\"><\/p>\n<p>            My Father-in-Law Abandoned His Family for Another Woman. But I Think It\u2019d Be So Sweet to Have Him at Christmas!<br \/>\n          <\/a>\n        <\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/aside>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"130\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4ubjmn2004o3b72t61yizli@published\">It\u2019s also important to understand the depth of emotion. Would you merely dislike your husband sleeping with other people, or would it be devastating? It might be worth enduring some discomfort for your husband\u2019s satisfaction, but if it\u2019s distressing or distracting to any great degree, you shouldn\u2019t force yourself. There are a lot of different ways to conduct a non-monogamous relationship\u2014some couples, for example, only have sex with other people together, while others only do it separately. In an attempt to mitigate anxiety\/stress, you\u2019d have multiple tools to experiment with (that\u2019s what she said\u2026about non-monogamy). If the principle of your husband sleeping with other people is so vexing here, try to operate beyond principle and focus on the practical. That would further situate you in the realm of workable options.<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"170\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4uav12s002b3b72qd6eerr5@published\">You may very well be asexual, and in that case, efforts to \u201cimprove\u201d your relationship to sex would likely not be worth the time. But you might want to check out Emily Nagoski\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Come-Together-Science-Creating-Connections-ebook\/dp\/B0BHCYHKS2\/ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.jycuQTCjO6OrdsJllgR7eOEmK9kNa0VEAt1UqeLaghnGrAeZZQYyev3-7tqgcia5lhJfH_PUKK-DBtTwsYlfrjaPNL3-uzp9Vfi8ugSjYIINpSRGPQerTC7ZUmHHQYbWGyffOCs15-bNMX73OB-_tLmKMxlsP60DMEP_y4yYvrit-0itJTOE6kJyjskGHelm4YQt4TB8v64QGYjiwdQY-sK6kbCopLq2tiBaw5Wedbs.NFjx2TGTIXmUsCtSx_Pxs2d6Ilo5lK8BUqY_PBmglD4&amp;qid=1734293464&amp;sr=8-1\"><em>Come Together<\/em><\/a> (it\u2019s been a few weeks since I mentioned that book in this column so here\u2019s an obligatory reference to it). In it, Nagoski advocates a pleasure-focused approach that pays little mind to spontaneous desire. That is, not worrying so much about being struck by horniness so that you have no choice but to drop everything and get off, and instead being intentional and allowing yourself to have sex and, in the event that your responsive desire kicks in, enjoy it. It might be useful to your overall sexual philosophy to read Nagoski in-depth on this. If you <em>can<\/em> enjoy sex, it\u2019s about focusing on that. But if what you\u2019re really relishing in is your husband\u2019s happiness and getting to see him lose control, well, why not try to continue to find ways to enjoy that?<\/p>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"1\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4uav3d6002g3b72swrikzcw@published\"><span class=\"slate-paragraph--tombstone\">\u2014Rich<\/span><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"subhead subhead--none\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/subhead\/instances\/cm4uav8je002s3b72n6pgevsc@published\">\n<p>More Advice From Slate<\/p>\n<\/h3>\n<p class=\"slate-paragraph slate-graf\" data-word-count=\"68\" data-uri=\"slate.com\/_components\/slate-paragraph\/instances\/cm4uav5om002m3b72l0qttcuj@published\">Where do I find sexy, high-quality, lace lingerie for men? I (30s F) want to get some for my husband (30s M) for Christmas. 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